I have a 4 year old son from a prior relationship, and he's SO excited about the wedding. He says it's my, FH's, and his wedding. He really wants to be a full part of it, and I want to incorporate him to honor that all three of us are becoming a family, while also being realistic about a 4yo's attention span. So far my ideas are, he'll skate me "down the aisle" along with my dad, and while FH & his mom do the mother-son dance, I'll also dance with my son ("House of Gold" by TwentyOne Pilots.
Looking for any and all ideas to involve DS more I'm sure he'll want to stand with us during the ceremony. What have other parents done?