I'm getting married in 9 months and I'm freaking out because I'm 196lbs and only 5'7. So, technically I'm obese. I don't really look like I'm almost 200 lbs except you can see it real bad in my upper arms and my stomach is starting to fat. I'm freaking out because I'm not good and knowing what I should eat and how many calories or macros and I can't afford to have a personal trainer to teach me all that and work outs. Someone please help! I just want to look pretty for my wedding and hopefully make this weight loss thing a life style.