No sex before wedding?

I don't think its dumb. I think it is sweet. I don't know if I could do it lol, We are gonna try to do a kissing fast the month before. Not sure if it will work or not

Oh I don't know if we can do it either, but I want to try and I think the anticipation would be awesome.

Ahhh...when you get closer to your actual date the wedding planning will make abstinence MUCH easier

all i can say is BRING ON MY HONEYMOON!!!!!!!!!

I dont think it's dumb. I won't be doing it though, for us sex is a way to unwind and reconnect to and with each other and with the stress of planning this wedding, I definitely need that! Lol

Its a sweet thought. but i couldn't do it lol also i already have to abstain from sex for months at a time b/c my FH is in the marines haha. so if he's around, its going down lol

My FH and I agreed to not have sex for two months before the wedding...then I started reading the 50 shades of Grey trilogy.....

Johanna, that's a whole different ball game. LOL @ Mrs. G.

I'll see how I do. How we do, period. Oh boy.

HAHA @ Mrs Goetz I hear ya that book put me in the mood too!

I think its a great idea, I dont think ill be able to do it though!

No interest in abstaining whatsoever - nope not a bit.

I still need to read that book...

I actually just asked my FH... he doesn't want to do more than 1-2 months but I was actually thinking 3. Call me crazy- but I think that's the point where we would get the most out of abstaining. We'll see what happens when we get closer lol

I haven't brought it up to FH yet.. I think it's sweet and I've heard from friends that it can really bring back some excitement but I can't really picture FH agreeing to it.. It's definitely not dumb!

My fiance and I decided that once we got engaged we weren't going to have sex again until our wedding night...that was 319 days ago...I CAN'T WAIT FOR OUR WEDDING!

Wow, Britnee, that's awesome.

I think it's dumb. People say it will make the wedding night more special. I disagree. It will make it uncomfortable, and well- he'll finish really fast.

If you were virgins, then wait. But you've been intimate. The last few weeks before the wedding are really stressful. Relieve the stress... And there is no better way to do that then doing it! In addition, you need the emotional closeness sex can bring in those last few weeks of total chaos.

I guess I never saw the point. If anything, I'd think that prolonged abstinence would lead to a) extra crabbiness during wedding planning, and b) wedding night sex that was over almost before it started. However, to each her own.

We are doing five months starting October 30th.

Whatever you choose to do with your intimate life is not dumb. Whatever works for you and your fiance is your business and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. We waited until our wedding night (first time for both), which is fairly uncommon, but I know many couples who took some time off before their weddings and had no adverse effects.

I told my FH a few months ago, no more sex until the wedding, he said, "we are getting married tomorrow then. We have sex whenever we can since we work different shifts.

We decided to take 2 weeks off "before". Right now, I'm PMSing and crabby! Chocolate puuullllleeeasseee!

No, not dumb at all. I asked FH for three months. He looked at me as if I were speaking in Latin. LOL! He did say ok to one month. Seriously speaking, my FH travels a LOT and when he is at his busiest we can see each other maybe 5 days in a month and those 5 days are not in the same week! So we are quite capable of going without. As a result, the times we are together are wonderful.