I have a gfriend who has gotten engaged recently. About 6 mos after me. Shes planning on having her wedding about 4 months before mine. I had already been talking about my vintage theme. Roaring 20's to be exact. Now she's saying she wants to copy my theme!! I told her how upset i would be if she decides to go through with this. But all she had to say to say to that was " it shpuld be fine because we'll only have a handfull of the same people there anyways." How infuriating... we are are in the same grpup of froemds so obviously we will have aome of the same people attending Now shes asking me to be a bridesmaid. And i dont know how to tell her i want to be as far away from her wedding as possible. And i dpnt want to say anything more about my wedding plans. Not to mention planning her qedding 4 months before mine feels slitely disrespectful in itself. Am i wrong, being a bridezilla?