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TheBestieEsti
Dedicated December 2017

Is a cash bar okay for wedding?

TheBestieEsti, on August 30, 2016 at 10:18 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 342

Hi everyone! We are getting married next year and are paying for everything ourselves. My FMIL told me that we were "cheapskates" for having a cash bar and not an open bar.. It made me feel really bad but at the same time, SHE is not paying for the wedding. Just wanted your thoughts on a cash bar at...

Hi everyone! We are getting married next year and are paying for everything ourselves. My FMIL told me that we were "cheapskates" for having a cash bar and not an open bar.. It made me feel really bad but at the same time, SHE is not paying for the wedding. Just wanted your thoughts on a cash bar at our wedding. Thanks in advance!

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
    Punkin Beer ·
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    I look forward to the results of Allysha's guest questionnaire. That way we can confirm she knows too.

    "Did you find the cash bar for liquor tacky?"

    1 = not tacky

    2 = somewhat tacky

    3 = tacky

    4 = very tacky

    5 = the most tacky

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
    VIP August 2017
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    Geez @Lorith! Stop reading wrong!

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  • Shanna
    Super September 2016
    Shanna ·
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    Anyone else up for getting day drunk? Like right now.

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  • A&W
    Master May 2017
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    @Debbie/Karen, with a $20k budget, hosting a beer and wine bar all night is easy. I don't understand why you would cut it off.

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  • Lorith
    Master May 2016
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    At least I can spell correctly

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
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    @Shanna - I'm up for getting day drunk most days lately on WW.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
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    Oh yay! Join the beer and wine only open bar club! We have cookies.

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
    VIP August 2017
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    @Allysha - it IS nice when we make good suggestions. What isn't nice is that it takes 13 pages of people saying the same thing before it clicks.

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
    VIP August 2017
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    @Alyssachu I choose you!


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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    @Allysha - you have the option to exit from this conversation. Thought you were leaving hmmmm???

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
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    @Allysha - are you telling me I can't post responses to you?

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

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  • Lauren B.
    Master October 2015
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    "I am done here, I don't want to see my name mentioned anymore. Keep my opinions about me to yourselves. Thanks everyone."


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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

    Allysha

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
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    @GymRat -


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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    I know I am but what are you?

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  • Lauren B.
    Master October 2015
    Lauren B. ·
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    When someone tells me to stop doing something on WW

    watch me


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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    What kills me is you think you're stuck here. Like you have the option to close your browser or the app ya know. This isn't the matrix.

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  • A&W
    Master May 2017
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    Why do people use smiley faces when they're clearly not smiling?

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
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    Allysha be like -


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