Hi everyone! We are getting married next year and are paying for everything ourselves. My FMIL told me that we were "cheapskates" for having a cash bar and not an open bar.. It made me feel really bad but at the same time, SHE is not paying for the wedding. Just wanted your thoughts on a cash bar at our wedding. Thanks in advance!
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