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Just Said Yes August 2012

How long were you dating before you got ENGAGED? and how long did it take to set a wedding date?

Tammy, on July 29, 2011 at 1:31 PM

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Just curious how long people were dating before he popped the question - and after getting engaged, how long did it take you to set a date? What were some of the things that you took into consideration when setting a date? We were engaged in May of 2011 (this year) and still have not set an exact...

Just curious how long people were dating before he popped the question - and after getting engaged, how long did it take you to set a date? What were some of the things that you took into consideration when setting a date? We were engaged in May of 2011 (this year) and still have not set an exact date yet!(we have a general idea - but......) (By the way - we had been dating almost a year and half when he proposed..)

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  • Mrs. Reese's Pieces
    VIP October 2012
    Mrs. Reese's Pieces ·
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    We were together for 3 years and almost 8 months before he proposed (July 2, 2011)... I wanted to get married Spring 2013 for money reasons... but eventually my fiance told me he felt that was just too long. So we put a deposit down on our venue for October 20, 2012 just this Monday.

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  • Mrs. Jaclyn Willson
    Master April 2012
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    We dated from January 14, 2009 to May 14, 2011, when he FINALLY proposed, so about 2 years and 4 months.

    It did not take long to pick our wedding date. I'd been actually "thinking' about the day for some time, even before the proposal, and have always wanted to get married in April anyway cause that's the month my parents got married. I did not know the date, but it worked out because we started dating on the "14th" of January and the "14th" of April ended up being on a saturday, so we decided it would be perfect.

    So excited, we have 260 days left until we say "I do"

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  • Lisa
    Super October 2011
    Lisa ·
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    We were dating for 16 months when he proposed. It took us 5 years to set the date because we were busy raising our little one. : ) We will have been together 7 years and 4 months when we get married this October...6 years after he proposed.

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  • Evelyn
    Devoted October 2011
    Evelyn ·
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    We dated 6 years, he proposed on our anniversary, and we set the date 3 months later Smiley smile

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  • Julean
    VIP May 2011
    Julean ·
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    We were dating just under 2 years when he proposed. It took us a few weeks to set the date because we were on vacation at the time and I changed it twice. Our engagement was VERY short...only 3 months, but we were very excited and basically knew what we wanted, had the money and said, "Why wait?"

    The day we got married we were together for two years, two months and 10 days.

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  • J
    Master November 2011
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    We knew each other as kids, so although we didn't date, you can partially count grades 1-8 for us. FFW, and we found each other online again in Fall 2009, met in May 2010, and got engaged in November 2010. We are having our DW this October, but our home town post-DW celebration will be exactly one year to the day of our engagement. Smiley smile Can't wait!!

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  • Ryan
    VIP July 2010
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    Dating 13 days, engaged 6 months, married 1 year last Sunday! (The best year of my life!)

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  • J
    Master November 2011
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    13 days?! Did you already know each other?

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  • CandiM
    VIP June 2011
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    Pumpkin, that is cool. We wanted to get married before my boys went to Florida for the summer, so we were limited to the first two weeks in June, the first one is my birthday (NO NO NO NO), so we went with 6/11. It worked really well.

    Sometimes when you know, you know. Smiley smile

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  • Leann
    Dedicated August 2012
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    We were dating for 2 years and 9 months when he proposed. We got engaged on April 18th and picked the date and put down our deposit on June 21st. We went back & forth between Nov and Aug. Finally decided on August but can't take a honeymoon until November because of his job.

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  • Jen P.
    Master January 2012
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    We had been dating for 3 years.. we were on a mini weekend vacation to celebrate our 3rd year together when he proposed Smiley smile We didn't set a date until I got my engagement ring about a month later. We decided to do it no later than a year and a half later because FH is going to quit his job (yay!) and go to school full time and I to go to school part-time and we wanted to have our wedding before we became broke students Smiley smile

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  • Ryan
    VIP July 2010
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    We'd met the year before, and sent a ton of emails while he was deployed, and hung out four other times before we started dating (coffee, mud run, ultimate frisbee, church conference), but once we started "officially" dating, we already knew we would be getting married eventually. The timing just meant either right away or wait another whole year (I'm a teacher), so...

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  • Crystal
    Dedicated August 2012
    Crystal ·
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    We dated a month and a half and it took us about a month to set the date.

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  • Tach
    Master July 2012
    Tach ·
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    We were dating 3 1/2 years and we set the date a couple of weeks after getting engaged

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  • Mrs. Moore
    Expert December 2011
    Mrs. Moore ·
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    We were dating for a year and a half when he proposed and we set the date in December of 2010.

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  • Shellie
    Devoted October 2011
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    We were together 2 years when I proposed to him. We set a date not lang after that but had to change due to finances. so now, by the time we get married, we will have been engaged for 5 years 9 months Smiley smile It's about time.

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  • Julie Ann
    Super December 2011
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    We went to highschool together and then last Oct started dating, then he proposed Feb 9, 2011! We set our date back in the end of Feb!

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  • Mrs.T.to.Be
    Super September 2011
    Mrs.T.to.Be ·
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    We dated for 11 months and he proposed. We decided on a date about a week later LOL! I guess we were both super excited to make a decision Smiley smile

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  • Faith
    Expert June 2012
    Faith ·
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    Met in May 2010 Started dating June 1 2010 engaged November 2010 and set our date with in weeks when we decided to have it on our 2 yr anniversary on June 1 2012

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    I was the one who popped the question--nearly eight years after we started dating. We settled on the date within a couple of weeks after we got engaged, and we were married nearly nine years after we started dating.

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