Help my Fiance had NO rhythm!

Just let him have fun!! lol

People that know him, know he cant dance.

But if you propose the idea to him and he takes the classes, great!!

My FH cant dance either and requested that our first song be really slooooow

We just went and took dance lessons at Arthur Murray. It was four weeks, two lessons a week, and we now have a "wedding dance". We went in with both of us having two left feet and no rythem. Last night we went to our last lesson and we feel very comfortable that we're not going to make fools of ourselves out there. I'm super glad we did it.

Mine dances like a white boy haha he cant dance either but it sure is funny watching him get down..our wedding should be hilarious the whole night if he is dancing lol

Hahaha Too funny! Sign up for dance lessons! Jeremy thinks he doesn't need them but I've seen his dancing & it resembles a JR high boy. Needless to say, we will be taking them! haha

I want to be able to do the western waltz and look good doing it!

DH cant dance but I dont care! We didnt do dance classes, and our first dance went just fine. He did participate in the chicken dance, cha cha slide and the cupid shuffle for me! That was the most he's danced in 5 years lol

I just want him to feel the music! and have a great time!

I would have the time of my life watching him boogie at this point ................but he wants lessons Im a lil afraid Zoro is going to show up on the wedding day!

Yeah FH is the same...no rhythm!!! he dances okay when he's drunk but not by himself though. People always go but he's black....yeah that don't mean nothing lol but surprisingly he suggested going for dance lessons and we started a couple weeks ago and things have been good!!! he's feeling a bit more comfortable and we practice a little at home as well - if he wants to take dance lessons that's great if not then just let him be him =)

Do it!

We've been taking dance classes for more than two years now. When we first started, I would get so frustrated- I have never met someone so rhythmically challenged! I mean it was so bad, the dance instructor, or me, would have to tell him when to start leading so we dance with the music. Now we go out salsa dancing. For our first dance, we are doing a bit of fox trot, swing, and waltz.

You can get a lot accomplished by the time your wedding comes around.

Here is what saved us a lot of money- videotape yourselves during dance class. That way, when you are home and you are practicing the dance you will remember exactly what is it you are supposed to be doing.

Good Luck

Thanks! I know it will be the best day of my life no matter what!

If you can afford it, and he is game, I would highly recommend dance lessons. FH and I took wedding dance lessons, and have had a blast, we plan on continuing lessons after the wedding. If not, then it not a big deal, you guys just have fun and no one is going to care!

Oh I feel your pain my FH dances like a chimp on crack, and he thinks he is an amaising dancer cause he's a "classicly trained musician" so he has impeciable rhythm...but the man's a spazz.

You could try lessons I've herd they can do wonders but if he has no rhythm what so ever it might just frustrate him more. I know it hard but just let him have fun he'll be embarrassing you for the rest of your life....so you might as well start getting used to it at the wedding

My FH cant dance either, so for our first dance we are just doing a slow song where we can just "move side to side hugging each other" as my FH says LOL. then for the rest of the night, he is free to "dance" any way he wants.. which will be all over the place hahaha but its all in good fun, so im not worried about it.

If he wants to learn to dance then i say go for it, but it should be up to him. my FH is a great dancer, I on the other hand only dance when I have had a few and even then I dance like Elaine from Seinfeld. It doesn't really matter as long as you are both having fun!

At least im not the only one with a FH that can't dance... i can't get him to take lessons so we will see how the first dance goes lol. i always showing him posts on wedding pages when i see them about how the groom secretly took dance lessons to surprise his FW with flashmob or just regular dance... i dont think its working tho LOL