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Blending familys can be a true joy, but there are tricky elements too. From merging households, to deciding where to spend the holidays, this is the place to give and get support on all things family.

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Fiancé vs Mom
, on March 16, 2019 at 2:28 AM

My fiancé proposed in December. He asked my dads permission and the whole nine yards. My dad cried whereas my mom told me that night that I “shouldn’t start planning too much because we’re not paying...

Danielle, Mar 18, 2019 22 2,133
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How have you honored deceased family at your wedding/reception?
Kristina, on March 15, 2019 at 2:17 PM

I lost my dad a little over two years ago and would like to have something dedicated to honoring him at our wedding. He will be named in the petitions at the church ceremony but I also want to do...

Jordan, Mar 18, 2019 17 1,172
Janna
Tomboy lesbian bridesmaid
Janna, on March 14, 2019 at 8:44 PM

My sister is one of my bridesmaids. She is a lesbian and does not ever wear dresses. I'm conflicted as to whether I should have her wear a dress anyway or dress like the guys - in slacks and a...

MrsD, Mar 15, 2019 14 2,474
JJAF
Brother and sil expecting.
JJAF, on March 11, 2019 at 7:49 PM

My brother and SIL are expecting and they keep bringing up a baby shower, hinting to my sister and I that we should be hosting it. Problem is is that they’re expecting around my wedding day and...

Veronica, Mar 14, 2019 32 689
Shyanne
Handfasting vs traditional
Shyanne, on March 10, 2019 at 6:37 AM

Hi guys! So I have a few questions. My soon to be husband is pagan and wants to include a handfasting into our wedding (basically tying the knot), only problem is HIS family sat me down and told me I...

EllieRose, Mar 13, 2019 12 430
Davina
Anyone else who's mother is not interested?
Davina, on March 6, 2019 at 3:22 AM

When my partner and I got engaged, my mum said 'I would rather go to a funeral than a wedding.' I feel really sad as I would love some support in planning but she is simply not interested. I don't...

MIWM, Mar 8, 2019 16 1,871
Amanda
Family forced into wedding!
Amanda, on March 6, 2019 at 8:22 PM

Has anyone else had family drama/been forced to have someone in your wedding you didn't want!? My cousins on my mom's brothers side and I are not that close. His children are underage and at the time...

Amanda, Mar 7, 2019 5 238
Erica
Invites for Parent's/grandparent's Friends
Erica, on March 4, 2019 at 10:50 AM

Hi All, I hope planning is going well with everyone! I have a question about announcing weddings to parents & grandparents friends. My fiancé and I are from Michigan, getting married in ATL. Given...

Daria, Mar 4, 2019 12 1,332
Lauren
My brother always criticize my body
Lauren, on March 4, 2019 at 12:06 PM

So, my brother has always been a bully to me when it comes to my body. He always has something negative to say whether it's about my face, or my hair, but mostly my weight. I live in Kansas and he...

Btbride, Mar 4, 2019 9 1,541
Futuremrsm
Didn't ask for my fathers "permission"
Futuremrsm, on February 28, 2019 at 11:59 AM

So i got engaged late october while on a trip overseas. My fiance and i have been together over 4 years so it was already something i knew was coming and we talked about it beforehand. At christmas my...

Stephanie, Mar 4, 2019 38 5,557
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Should i pay for my friend/officiant's hotel room?
Erica, on February 28, 2019 at 11:13 AM

A good friend of mine, Veronica, who was a former supervisor that I've grown very close to is officiating my wedding. Her and her husband have both been there for me and my fiance during extremely...

Bluey8616f, Mar 1, 2019 13 1,147
Sierra
My mom has no clue.
Sierra , on February 27, 2019 at 1:24 PM

I’m getting married in 79 days... From the moment I got engaged the tension between my mother and I has been growing. I’m getting knots in my stomach just thinking of it all. I knew from the start...

Soon2Bmrsp, Feb 28, 2019 16 503
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Mother of the Bride Wants to Be Involved
Cara, on February 27, 2019 at 1:34 PM

Hi Everyone! I'm looking for some advice on my mother. She is not paying for any of the wedding because she doesn't have money. My Dad, future inlaws, and grandparents are all chipping in (with my...

Joanna, Feb 27, 2019 8 984
Laura
Fiancee spent wedding money
Laura, on February 15, 2019 at 2:21 PM

My fiancee is a good guy, let me start with that. He refuses to start planning the wedding until he has ALL the money we need. I think we need to start putting money down on venues, I need to get my...

Erin, Feb 26, 2019 57 4,492
Nyikee
How close are you to your bridesmaids?
Nyikee, on February 16, 2019 at 8:50 PM

I'm just wondering if everyone is super close to all of their girls, or if they have a few friends that aren't really all that close to them. I have 4 girls- my MOH (bestie), my youngest sister, and 2...

Ami, Feb 25, 2019 52 3,936
Lianna
Anyone else have great in laws?
Lianna, on February 21, 2019 at 12:44 AM

I really got blessed with a great future family. My FMIL has been the biggest help with my planning and generally just being there. And her husband has been welcoming me into his family since day one....

N, Feb 23, 2019 16 746
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Nobody is excited?
Madeline, on February 20, 2019 at 7:00 PM

Shortly after becoming engaged, my fiance’s Sister announced she was pregnant to the family. We became the back burner as everyone was planning for the arrival of the little one. I am SO excited to be...

FutureMrsB, Feb 21, 2019 20 1,204
Kattie
Amount of family members for bride attending
Kattie, on February 18, 2019 at 1:27 PM

Question for those of you who are getting married: Do any of you (brides or grooms) not have much of your own family coming to your wedding but your significant other has their entire family coming...

Anna, Feb 20, 2019 19 1,123
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Father of the bride gift, for a strained relationship
Sarah , on February 18, 2019 at 11:59 AM

Hey y'all, Hoping for some guidance here. My father and I are not close, to put it very mildly, but he is very generously paying for a large portion of the wedding (we are paying for the rest), and...

Sarah, Feb 20, 2019 8 1,083 1
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Estranged from Dad...
Kayla, on February 18, 2019 at 6:00 PM

Hey, all, I'd love some advice from brides who have an estranged relationship from their father. To try to paint an accurate picture without going into too many details, let's just say that my life at...

Ana, Feb 19, 2019 10 231 1
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