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Kayla
Flower...boys?
Kayla, on September 4, 2016 at 11:42 PM

New poster here, I apologize for the lack of avatar. I'll change it! My FH and I have no young female family members. He has two nephews who we plan to have in the ceremony. Have any of you ever seen...

MoweryMe, Sep 5, 2016 18 10,407
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Possibly changing my engagement ring.. Is it wrong?
Kimberly1022, on January 6, 2015 at 7:25 AM

My fiancé and I got engaged a little over 2 years ago, and when we first got engaged we didn't really have the money for a huge ring, so my FH got what he could. A year later he decided to upgrade my...

Lilith, Sep 5, 2016 23 5,152
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Proposing Without A Ring Overseas? Need quick Advice!
Joe, on August 25, 2013 at 6:29 PM

I need everyone's opinion. I just decided to propose to my long time girlfriend during our trip to Italy in 5 days. At this time I don't have a ring. I'm not sure I feel safe taking a ring with me to...

Lilith, Sep 5, 2016 25 2,705
UnderTheJuneWillows
Recourse when photog doesn't meet deadline in contract?
UnderTheJuneWillows, on September 4, 2016 at 12:10 PM

I'm wondering what the recourse is or can be when the photographer goes beyond the contracted date for return. Our contract says 6-10 weeks and yesterday was 10 weeks. I had emailed her a few times...

kimmyinjapan, Sep 4, 2016 18 2,417
Kristyn
Is wedding planning supposed to be fun?
Kristyn, on September 4, 2016 at 6:15 PM

I thought wedding planning was supposed to be fun. My family is thrilled, but my fiancé's family on the other hand... i'm just not feeling the excitement from them and it's bringing me down. I tired...

Zoe, Sep 4, 2016 11 880
MyBBLife
Private Ceremony, Informing Extended Family, and Social Media
MyBBLife, on September 4, 2016 at 8:55 AM

We are having a private ceremony with immediate family and and close friends (about 20 guests total). We plan to send out formal announcements to extended family and friends whenever our pictures are...

MyBBLife, Sep 4, 2016 9 69
Meaghan
Corsage for stepmother? And other questions
Meaghan, on September 3, 2016 at 10:20 PM

I know everyone's families are different but *maybe* someone has a similar position and can offer advice. FH's parents are divorced. They are civil with each other but rarely (never?) have any reason...

Going to the chapel, Sep 3, 2016 11 2,018
MorseLove
FH anxious about standing in front of people
MorseLove, on August 18, 2016 at 12:51 PM

So, my FH and I were going to have a private ceremony (8 people excluding us and the officiant) and then have the reception right afterward with everyone. He is very anxious about large crowds and...

no1, Sep 3, 2016 8 865
SoonToBeSummers
Guest Book Attendant
SoonToBeSummers, on September 3, 2016 at 3:36 PM

Our DOC said we need someone to sit by the guest book at the church and make sure people sign it, and also to take gifts if people bring them to the church. I can't think of a single person that I...

SoonToBeSummers, Sep 3, 2016 8 1,943
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RSVP Question
Sammi, on September 2, 2016 at 10:46 PM

Question, I just got a wedding invite in the mail. The RSVP card has a giant B on it where there normally is an M? Like Miss, Mrs, Mr, yah know what I mean? Did they just have a typo orrrr am I...

nolalishak, Sep 3, 2016 23 195
K
How much to tip maitre d' and chef for a chinese wedding banquet?
Kevin, on September 2, 2016 at 10:20 PM

Hi Wedding Wire! Need your help/advice. My fiance and I are getting married soon in Flushing, NY at a traditional Chinese banquet. Our wedding planner recommended to tip $300 for the maitre d'...

Gracie, Sep 2, 2016 1 961
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No kids at the ceremony and reception ...
Jaymie, on February 1, 2011 at 11:08 PM

We are having a "no kids" reception, therefore, the invite indicates "Adult reception to follow" (after the ceremony). My fiance indicated that we will need to state somewhere on the invite "no kids...

June, Sep 2, 2016 23 2,271
Amanda
What about the vendors?
Amanda, on September 1, 2016 at 5:53 PM

I'm trying to budget things out and get quotes for things like catering, drinks, and cake. I know I have to feed my vendors but should I also budget for drinks for them? I'm assuming because they're...

Ashley, Sep 2, 2016 23 1,713
Savanah
Beer and wine only or!?
Savanah, on September 2, 2016 at 7:33 AM

So I totally prefer having the mid level bar for our venue. It's not house vodkas ect just above that and not the elite package. Anyways my FH wants to do beer and wine only with 2 signature drinks.....

Savanah, Sep 2, 2016 35 358
Caitlin
Help! Can't find this dress online! UPDATE! Figured it out and made a choice!
Caitlin, on August 8, 2016 at 10:31 PM

I went dress shopping at a little store and ended up putting a dress on hold because I really liked it but couldn't pull the trigger. I wanted to compare it with another dress I tried on and liked,...

Caitlin, Sep 2, 2016 21 1,287
Carolina988
Being "given away"
Carolina988, on September 1, 2016 at 9:05 PM

I really don't like the idea of being given away. I haven't lived in my parents' house in over 5 years, so it's not like I'm going from their household straight into my husbands'. My dad is really...

Steffany, Sep 2, 2016 28 967
Future Mrs. Dotts
Mentioning the gift in thank you notes?
Future Mrs. Dotts, on September 1, 2016 at 7:18 PM

So I've heard mixed opinions as to whether or not to mention the gift in thank you notes. What did you guys do?

Jessica, Sep 1, 2016 10 113
Dreamer
Do I need ushers to hand out ceremony program?
Dreamer, on September 1, 2016 at 3:11 PM

I'm not sure if I need ushers or maybe just someone to hand out ceremony programs when people come into the church. I'm not having a bride/groom side for seating at the church. I'm just not sure how...

brieliz, Sep 1, 2016 9 799
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Are there any alternatives to the mother and son dance
Lisa, on August 31, 2016 at 11:41 PM

My bfs mother passed away i want to know if there are any alternatives to the mother and son dance

Robin, Sep 1, 2016 17 4,180
summer
Are slideshows lame?
summer, on August 31, 2016 at 11:09 PM

Hello, First, let me apologize for any grammatical errors and misspellings in this and previous posts. It seems the WW has a gang of self-appointed spelling police. Just want to get thoughts on...

Ro, Sep 1, 2016 48 5,017
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