Choose a seat not a side

A sign that says, "pick a seat, not a side. We're all family once the knot is tied"

"choose a seat and not a side, you are loved by both the groom and the bride!" on a sign

Lol

Are you having ushers? You could have them direct guests to sit anywhere they wish.

They'll figure it out without the overused poems or signs. Every time I see one at a wedding I think "oh really? I had NO idea!" One of my biggest wedding pet peeves.

Since we are having some Star Wars touches, we will have a sign that says, "Sit or sit not. There are no sides. - Yoda". A play on his quote "Do or do not. There is no try."

I like " today two families become one. Please Pick a seat not a side. "

I was not planning on having ushers but maybe I should...Thanks for the ideas!

@Sass, that is cute

Have your ushers tell them. Keep it simple.

Adults know how to seat themselves.

Similar to what others have said, have some groomsmen be ushers or have friends/family be ushers. We are also switching it up and I'll stand on the grooms side and FH on the brides side so family can see our faces. My wedding venue coordinator gave us the idea!

Thanks, @Beth!

No signs and definitely no bad verse. Adults know how to sit down.

We only have 2 groomsmen and not a lot of family. I just don't want my family and friends to only sit on my side. I have a lot more people coming to the wedding. Don't want to be cheesy either!

You can have your GM act as ushers. Or just let people seat themselves.

Aaaaand there it is - the patented Erin Wood humble brag.

Flighty!!!!

ETA: HaHa!

We're doing the "Choose a seat, not a side. We're all family once the knot is tied" because I found the sign at Marshalls for $10 and idgaf

I hate those "pick a seat, not a side" signs. Have an usher or two who can tell the guests to sit wherever they choose.