Well, I think I've picked the dress, but the bra at the shop that I'm going with was the worst bra EVER. It's amazing what a difference a good bra can make! I'm a bigger gal (40DD), and the little bra that they gave me to try on just collapsed under my heavy boobs, which wasn't doing me any good at all. It's probably a mark of what an amazing dress it was that it's still the best thing I've ever put on, but What are you wearig under the dress? Are you trying to make it sexy fo the wedding night, or are you saving that for the honeymoon? Thanks all!!