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You can say our story is a successful internet dating relationship; we were both on this website called Plenty Of Fish. I came across his page and his main picture happened to catch my eye, he was wearing aviator sun glasses and had a really amazing smile I decided to message him thinking it was a long shot and he’d probably never message me back, I kept it short and sweet saying “Hey nice aviator’s you got there ;)” within 5 minutes he messaged me back saying thank you and that he just recently broke them by sitting on them, I decided to look at his profile again reading his interests, likes, dislikes, and profile and I found that we actually had a lot in common, I messaged him back and we ended up messaging each other for the entire day back and forth on POF. Finally the next day we decided to take it to texting and we added each other on Facebook. We clicked so fast and I found myself loving to hear from him, waiting for his texts. We would text each other all day and night and literally fall asleep texting and start all over again the next day. We planned to meet half way cause he lived in Modesto so we figured Pleasanton would be half way for us both, I couldn’t afford to go out there until the following week so we agreed to that and kept texting for a few days more, then on a Tuesday he texted me and told me he didn’t want to wait anymore and he really just wanted to meet me. he said he had to know if our connection was going to be as strong in person as it was over the phone, so he said he was driving out here after he was off work so he would be here at 10pm. I was shocked, excited and nervous but I didn’t believe that he was really going to come. I kept thinking he would just cancel at the last minute. I mean it was an hour and half drive just to come out and meet a complete stranger on a whim of believing that maybe they could be the one, so I continued my Tuesday like I would any other Tuesday I went to the gym with my brother and as I was getting out of the car I received a text from Troy saying he was in Tracy, that’s when reality hit me and I became very anxious and nervous. He really was coming, I was about to meet the guy that I have been talking to for the past three weeks, we decided to meet at the bar Masses in Walnut Creek, it was Tuesday so it was my weekly day to hang out at the bar and catch up with my girls, I figured meeting in a public place and around my friends would take the edge off of it being awkward, I pulled into the parking lot of the Bar and he texted me saying he was there, my heart started beating so fast I just kept hoping that our connection would be just as strong if not stronger in person as it was over the phone. I walked into the bar and saw him standing in front of the ATM machine back toward me, as soon as I saw him something about his presence just made me feel so at ease I decided to mess with him and I walked up behind him and traced my finger up and down the back of his neck, he jumped and looked at me and smiled, we hugged and looked each other in the eyes, that moment that we locked eyes for the first time literally changed my entire life. As soon as I saw his amazing blue eyes staring at me I felt as if a piece of me that has been missing was finally found, my heart began to beat so fast and I couldn’t think straight. He made me feel like life was perfect and had meaning something about this guy made me feel like I’ve never felt before. The rest of the night went so good, we flirted with each other the whole time stepping on each other’s toes and pushing each other just childish behavior but fun. I ended up drinking more then I usually did and didn’t feel very comfortable driving home, he rented a hotel out here and I decided to stay with him. We kissed but nothing else happened we just slept then morning came and I had to go to work. While I was at work I was texting him asking him if he wanted to stay a little while longer so we could hang out after I got off work. He said it was his only day off and he really needed to get stuff done before the next day, but he decided to stay a little longer after I got off work I met him at the Mall and we hung out, walked around every store talked and just shared great company, I felt so comfortable around him like I've known him my entire life. It came time for him to leave so I walked him to his car and we stood there talking and flirting for hours, not wanting to leave each others presence finally we let go and we got in our cars and parted ways. On my drive home all I could think about was him, my heart was beating so fast and I was shaking I felt like I needed to be with him, something about him made me want to see him again I missed him so much already from only knowing him for two days in person. We texted a lot over the phone for the next few days, but I couldn't shake this feeling. It was so strong for just meet him and I was afraid of what it could mean. I asked him if he believed in love at first sight and he texted me back saying maybe. I felt so weird and dumb even asking that question, of course he didn't , who would? its just a myth right? we texted back and forth talking about our feelings when finally he said He loved me I called him immediately and told him I loved him too. We literally fell in love at first sight. I never believed in it, until I met him and now I know it exist. He is so perfect and everything I could have asked for in so many ways. He's my lover, my best friend, my everything. I never feel alone when I have him. We took turns for a few months after that visiting each other he'd come to Bay Point and I'd go to Modesto, until one Friday I drove over to his place and surprised him he said he had bought something for me and brought out a scrapbook, he knew i loved scrap booking and he said he'd like us to start scrap booking together. He said he started the first page already for us when I opened the book the first page had pictures of him and I kissing and Sticker letters across it saying "Kristina will you marry me" with a ring tied to a heart that said "Troy & Kristina Forever & Always" my heart stopped I didn't know what to say or do I've never felt like this before it was incredible I just jumped on him and hugged him so tight I couldn't even breath I finally was able to say yes and nod. He placed the ring on my finger and we couldn't stop hugging. It was incredible. Every minute I spend with him just keeps getting better and better he is literally my Fairy tale come true.
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