Are you sure you want to marry him???? :o

This is someone who should NOT be at your wedding...I can't believe you are considering inviting (and paying for) her! BARF!

Agreed with Analy.. I would 'forget' her invitation.. Anyone who doubts our relationship, shouldn't be celebrating our marriage with us.

You know people have had the weirdest reactions honestly. My aunt has a friend who i don't know very well but she acts like she knows me. She tells me let me see your ring and then she looks at my aunt and right in front of me says "how long do you think they will last, we should start putting our bets in" and my face was like what??? And ive heard other things. People just say things without thinking, and its been hard for me to follow this but don't worry about everyone else and follow your heart and plan your special day!

Oh and I agree with both Analy and Lauren!!!!! 100%!!!!!!

*picking jaw up off floor* Oh Em Gee!!! Really??? That's an awful thing to say to someone and I would have told her so. Throughout the planning process the one thing I have found is that you can always rely on people to say the dumbest things. I would not invite the sister. Only supportive people should be allowed at the wedding.

If you value your friend's opinion ask her if she's seen something in your relationship that concerns you and hear her out. It's possible she's worried about you and that's where her sister got the 'do you want to get married'.

Otherwise - how ridiculous!

I agree with you ladies! Unfortunately her sister is my best friend and their mom is like my second mom ...

Gosh, Analy..you're SO rude! BARF?! Really?! Hahaha....yet I'm in total agreement. She sucks. And you should tell her so. Or we all will.

@antonia I can honestly say he is awesome!! Lol and this girl has never met him in person!! Lol

Uh...so invite the sister (bff) and the mom. She doesn't need to come to something she doesn't support. Period.

My jaw dropped ready that, OH HELLZ NO!! You are not over-reacting since that was very inappropriate of her to say to you. Is she invited to the wedding? Sounds like she doesn't know you that well - You should tell her how she made you feel.

So you are saying your BFF asked you why you were getting married or wanted to marry him? WTH is up with that? I would be having words...

She has never met him?????

@jaemi my best friend sister asked me that

I hear you - sounds strange. What's your BFF's take? Have you asked her what's up with her sister?

OMG@Ms September - what a biatch!! Some people are so jealous and cant stand to see the happiness you share, they want it for themselves. (rolling my eyes)

Too many BFF's and sisters ;-) either way- invite for sister=HELL no!

She needs to keep her opinions to herself..especially ones that are hurtful!

I agree Mrs. September

When I first started reading your comment, I was kinda like thats cool that you someone had you verbalize why you want to get married. I thought it was someone who was giving you the opportunity to really think about it. My mind drifted for a bit to what I would say and why is I know I want to marry him. Then I shook it off and kept reading. Then I really was upset for you!!!! I agree don't invite her!