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Cecy
Super October 2011

Are you sure you want to marry him???? :o

Cecy, on January 28, 2011 at 2:58 PM

Posted in Planning 52

Hi ladies!! So, I went to have dinner few days ago with my friend and her sister came along. They haven't see me since I got engaged well after they ask to se the ring lol the sister asked me flat out "are you sure you want to marry him?" I was like wow no one has asked that ever!! My reaction was...

Hi ladies!!

So, I went to have dinner few days ago with my friend and her sister came along. They haven't see me since I got engaged well after they ask to se the ring lol the sister asked me flat out "are you sure you want to marry him?" I was like wow no one has asked that ever!! My reaction was ofcourse!! And she replied tell me why??? I felt like i was at an interview!! She is a great girl and very fun to hang out with but I was really surprised she asked me that. She also asked me I was going to have an open bar wedding??? Mmm I just smile and said we're not sure yet but just in case bring your wallet lol... I feel really offended by all those questions am I over reacting????

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  • Jackie
    Super March 2012
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    My sister asked me that too.. then asked me why... and i was just stunned i didn't know what to say. I can't un-invite her either. she's one of my bridesmaids.

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    @Meghan lol!!! You made me laugh so loud!! Thank you!!

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  • Mr. Bigglesworth
    VIP October 2011
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    I could see myself asking one of my best friends that if I was generally concerned for her and didn't think she was making a good choice. But i'd go about it in a much more tactful way.

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    @Jackie I would expect that from sister lol

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  • Jackie
    Super March 2012
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    Lol yeah, I love her but her marriage isn't going as well as planned and i stood behind her never asked if she was sure I just asked if she loved him. That's all i wanted not a "Why?" She had this ton of voice and this look on her face when she asked that just said "what the hell do you think you are doing?"

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    @Miss Me like I mentioned to the other brides I can swear we are very in love and don't have any issues or drama for that matter; I have never complained or got in a fight with him.. We truly happy! Lol I don't know why she said something like that ..

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    @Jackie I completely understand!! *sigh*

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  • sillybuddha
    Dedicated March 2011
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    I'm sorry. But I think most of us have had an "I can't believe they just said that". And all you can do is try to behave cordial and not let it get to you. I try to keep good faith in people, but hurtful things always happen. People will always stick their foot in their mouths, say mean things, and be jealous and plain hate.

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  • Dana
    Devoted July 2011
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    Some people are just blunt like that. If I uninvited every person that said something weird or rude to me, none of my family would be at the wedding.

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    Thank you sillybudha you're right!

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  • Cecy
    Super October 2011
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    @Dana I feel you!! Lol

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  • Mrs. Phillips
    Master September 2011
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    Those are actually good questions, cause when we met with our officiant she asked us the same question and after i answered it she was like i see how much you guys really love either and i haven't seen that in awhile, but when it came to the open bar i was like please, ask her if she's willing to pay for it lol

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