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Stephanie
Super July 2020

Are Wedding Favors a Must?

Stephanie, on October 16, 2019 at 4:54 PM

Posted in Wedding Reception 234

Hey Ladies. Are there any of you who are NOT giving out wedding favors? Are they an absolute must? I don't want to seem cheap, but we are almost over budget and one part of my brain says "I am paying for food and desert and everything else, the experience should be enough". I have been to plenty...

Hey Ladies. Are there any of you who are NOT giving out wedding favors? Are they an absolute must? I don't want to seem cheap, but we are almost over budget and one part of my brain says "I am paying for food and desert and everything else, the experience should be enough". I have been to plenty weddings, grabbed favors and threw them away shortly thereafter. The other part of my brain says "Don't be ratchet, have the favors". Honestly, I feel like they are a waste of money. Am I wrong?

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  • Stephanie
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    Good idea Mary, thanks for sharing.
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  • E
    Devoted November 2019
    Emily ·
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    Not a must at all ! It’s an extra you can do if you want.
    I don’t think any guest goes to a wedding hoping for the favor. They go to the wedding to see you say YES to your love.
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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
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    I didnt do any favors. I've never enjoyed the favors when I've gone to weddings so I didnt do it myself. I also had way too many people comment on the amount of favors left over at their weddings.
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  • Stephanie
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    I agree Megan. I always take them but throw them away and I don't want that.
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  • Stephanie
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    Emily, I agree. Thanks so much.
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  • Tessa
    Devoted November 2019
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    I went to a wedding last night and they made an announcement to please take all of the flower arrangements home. It's still a thing!
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  • Stephanie
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    Oh Tessa, awesome. I didn't know it was still a thing. Perfect, we may do that. Thanks for the insight.

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  • Chanie
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    Honestly we are not sure if we will be giving them yet due to our budget. I haven't found any that are reasonable we have a guest count of 200 so its pricey.

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    I'm skipping favors and doing donations to charities we care about in the guests honor instead.
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  • Samantha
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    We're doing a sweets table for our favors! I've heard from several people that if it's not edible it usually gets left behind or tossed out

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  • Abby
    Dedicated October 2020
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    We are not doing favors, we would rather put that money into the experience like the open bar or some late night snacks. I agree they are a waste of money and it’s nice to hear people are thinking the same thing! I went to a wedding recently that did not have favors and I think most people probably didn’t even notice.
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  • Emily
    Super April 2020
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    Not necessary and we are not doing them either. No one will miss them!
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  • Ellen
    Dedicated September 2020
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    Nope! We are spending the money on late night burger and fries instead of favors!
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  • Rebecca
    Just Said Yes September 2020
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    Honestly, I’m not sure we are having them either. No one really wants a coaster set or bubbles with my wedding date on them, and some of the nicer favors are just so expensive. I think they’ll be too busy having fun with food and dancing to fuss about favors.
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  • Futuremrsconroy
    Devoted November 2019
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    We aren’t doing favors. We are doing a kids table with entertaining activities #yourewelcome 😂
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  • Lauren
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    OMGGGG! I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I truly feel like feeding and providing alcohol is more than enough. If you can swing it great, but if not, no big deal. I have been to a bunch of weddings; even parties, and I typically don't take the favors home because they just end up in the junk drawer.

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  • Lauren
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    You're kids got to come; that is your gift. lol I love it!

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  • K
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Kayla ·
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    We’re having a photo-booth and the pictures will be personalized with our wedding date, names, etc. I’m leaning towards that being the favors for those who want to participate and not worrying about it anymore
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  • Joy
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    My best friend loves to do Candy tables its like her specialty and since I am not having a bridal party she is dying to put her mark on the day..lol
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  • Stephanie
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    Chanie, my thoughts exactly. We have 200 guests that we are feeding and they are having free drinks and a great party. That should be enough.

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