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I’m almost finished with the name change process and it still doesn’t feel real. Don’t get me wrong, I love my husband and wanted to take his name but I miss my old name so much! It was who I was for...

FH and I dated through most of college and are getting married just a couple years after graduation... I’ll be 22 and he’ll be 24. It’s just weird because FH has never even been to a wedding before......

I am looking for fingerless opera length gloves. I bought a pair off of amazon, but they are tight and opera length. I would prefer a satin material because my dress is satin. Any suggestions for...

I'm starting to feel a little bad about not having a formal dinner with our guests and I'm trying to figure out how to incorporate something but the clock is ticking. We are very limited with time on...

I still have plenty of time to figure this out, I was just more curious to see what the respectful way to do this is. We have a decent sized wedding party, and we just can't fit everyone at the head...

Awww...I feel so bad about this and I am not sure what to say to comfort my FH. My mom and I were going over some checklists tonight, and we realized that FH has basically no one from his side that...

So my wedding is March 31st of this year and from the beginning of the wedding planning process my FMIL knew who our officiant would be. This whole wedding planning has been kind of backwards and...

We invited 160 guests mostly family. A lot of our family cannot attend and we are now looking at about 80 guests with 45 days to go. Our caterer has a 100 person minimum. Aside from being super sad...

We put a note on our website that says "We hope you understand our decision to make the wedding child-free, and take the opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate in style!" Is this okay? We are...

Ladies question...do you wear your engagement ring to bed? I heard you shouldn't. Something about the 5 S of not wearing an engagement ring...shower, shore, sleep, don't know the other 2. What do you...

Hi all! Our cake tasting is coming up soon and I was wondering if it’s just sitting down sampling cakes, or if there’s more to it? Not sure what to expect. Did you guys put a deposit down the day of...

Hey guys! My mom is very excited at the possibility of hiring a magician that does close-up magic to entertain guests during cocktail hour. He would mingle from group to group performing close-up...

What is an appropriate dress code for a 2pm wedding and cocktail reception to follow? I dont want them to where ball gowns and a tux but I would like my guests to look nice and dressed up. I was...

So I decided to do a kids table to keep them occupied most of the time. I’ve already ordered bulk crayons and bulk coloring books for the table and I’ve made a sucker bouquet. I’m going to be doing a...

I see negative reactions to both. Which one is worse is your opinion?

So my fiance and I are wanting to keep our BP small and close. I’ve been in a lot of weddings and even the MOH in a couple. How do you handle the “well you were my MOH, why am I not in your wedding”...

Did your bridal party dates come along on the party bus to take pics? Most of the bridal party is married so I want them to feel included. I am trying to figure out what size bus to get so I was...

My band is recommending the shoe game as a fun/funny little activity during the reception. We chose to skip the garter toss, and are only doing the bouquet toss. For this reason, the band wants to add...