Which is more rude, cash bar or dry wedding?

Dry wedding. I’d rather have the option to buy a drink than not have the option to drink at all. Both are bad though.

I would at least want the option to have a drink.
The other is telling me just what I can't do because you don't agree with it.
But I judge both.

Dry wedding. I would rather have the option to drink, even if I have to pay for it.

Yeah dry wedding is worse. No one will even stay if it's a dry wedding. Take it for someone who unknowingly went to one...I left after dinner.

I think a cash bar is ruder because it says you don't have any issue with alcohol you just don't want to pay for it. But I would prefer going to a cash bar than a dry wedding because at least I could still get a drink. So it depends which of your questions I answer. Cash is ruder, but dry is worse.

I’d 100% rather buy a drink than not have one, and I’m not sorry about it.

Cash bar because it screams cheap. So does a dry wedding, but at least that couple is owning their cheapness and not having the attitude “if my guests need alcohol to have fun they can buy their own drinks.”

Cash bar will go over a better than a dry wedding

I think cash bar is more rude. But, if those were the two options, I would prefer to go to a cash bar wedding than a dry wedding.

Cash is worse. I'd rather not even think about it vs having to pay.

I prefer a dry wedding and think a cash bar is worse. I would never purchase drinks at a cash bar reception because it’s not my job to fund a party 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would probably leave early at both, but I would be WAY more turned off by a cash bar.

Both are bad, but dry weddings are worse.

I would rather go to a cash bar wedding over a dry wedding!

Both are rude and tacky.
Offer beer and wine. Or offer a signature drink.

Dry wedding. Hands down.

We are having a dry wedding. I was ok with having limited types of drinks but my FH doesnt want alcohol there. Neither of us drink often, and we have quite a few friends and family who are not big drinkers also. What I'm going to do instead is have a couple of specialty non alcohol drinks, and have a hot chocolate station with various mix-ins. We will have cider available also. I think this really depends on the people who are going to attend as to whether it is rude or not. I have been to quite a few dry weddings, they were fun also. And in my home country it was tradition that there was a happy hour so to speak. Where the alcohol was free and after that time period or when the funding was spent, then people bought their own drinks. It was not a problem because it was just how weddings were done and there were notices to say which hour the drinks were free.

Neither is better. Both are horribly inconsiderate.

Honestly, neither one would bother me THAT much because when I go to a wedding I am there to celebrate the bride and groom not get wasted beyond belief. BUT, if I had to choose, cash bar all the way.

I would rather go to a dry wedding versus a cash bar wedding.

The etiquette answer is that a dry wedding is better than a cash bar.