Discussions I've participated in

His family is mad they aren't invited and blaming me. First off, He has adult children..his second marriage my first. We choose to have a small wedding (50 people only including vendors with 8 parking...

I am planning an anniversary party for my in-laws next year. We were going to celebrate their 25th, but with the COVID restrictions that didn't happen. Right now, I'm trying to find a creative way or...

Assuming that you are ordering a good tasting cake/dessert and not something that is from an incompetent bakery or is all around bad. Compared to the number of guests, did you order not enough, just...

Did anyone have a hard time debating on paying the extra for a plated dinner ? Our wedding will only be about 30 -40 guests so I’m not sure if it’s worth the extra $1k thanks!

Is anyone planning to walk themselves down the Isle? I have a long father, but for me it feels important to feel a sense of independence walking myself down the Isle. My sister relayed that it may...

My wedding was this past weekend and she did not fulfill things that were promised. We have a contract but all of our conversations happened via text. I feel bamboozled and taken advantage of. Two...

Hi !!!! So I’m not sure as to what color the mother of the bride is supposed to wear. We are having the bridesmaids in sage green & the men in tan suits. My mom is walking me down the aisle so I...

This feels like a stupid question, but what's the best way to ensure my invitations go out properly - after they're all sealed with correct postage (I already got them weighed before I bought stamps),...

This has been causing me such anxiety because I genuinely have no idea how to resolve this or who’s in the wrong. Is my husband being unreasonable & greedy or are my closest friends tacky &...

For those who had a lone night in or out on the town the night before the wedding as was the norm in generations past, what did you do? Go out to dinner, bowling, karaoke, bar hopping, spa, etc or...

I am going a civil ceremony but we are throwing a reception in July. We won’t have a bridal party and I only have a couple of friends in the City we live and none have offered to coordinate anything....

Old school etiquette says that save the dates are sent at 6-12 months before the wedding when the venue and date are secured and then invitations are sent at 6-8 weeks before with replies due at 4...

I have been engaged since late 2022 and have been in the wedding planning process for just over a year and a half. My wedding is next month, and we sent up Save the Dates in November followed by...

Me and my FH have the same birthday and have talked about getting married on our birthdays so we can just celebrate everything all together. Just wanted to hear other’s thoughts about this and see if...

Hello all! I need help! My fiancé is wanting royal blue and white as our wedding colors because they are the colors of his fraternity and my sorority. I am having a hard time wrapping my head around...

Hello! Would love some thoughts. Should we change? Our wedding is rapidly approaching. We’ve had a long engagement & booked some things without fully thinking it through. We started by having a...

I am in the northern NJ area, Italian, and the etiquette in my social circles is that you give a gift at the bridal shower, and then you give cash at the wedding. (No one gives a gift at the wedding,...

How should I word on my details card that guests will have to park in parking structure and pay for the day? I do have a website and will have alot more information on there and a map, but I also want...