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We will be providing the first alcoholic drink for all of our guests (via drink vouchers), and then after those vouchers are used, it will be a cash bar. Spirit-free beverages will be completely...

So I'm a bridesmaid for the wedding of my best friend, who I've known since pre-k. We have the bachelorette party planned for this summer, and the date we decided on was one I didn't think I had any...

Hi, My mom is planning my bridal shower with help from my grandmother. My grandmother told my mom that it is customary to ask guests for a donation to the planning fund, but didn't give any language....

I'm truly conflicted on whether or not I should change my last name...it isn't very attractive sounding, but it is extremely unique and straightforward, yet many people tend to pronounce and spell it...

For traditional vows the officiant will have the couple repeat after him/her, but we've both written our own vows. In an ideal world we'd have them rehearsed and memorized for the day of the wedding,...

I wrote on this guest’s invitation that I reserved two seats for her, giving her a plus one. When she RSVPed, she said 2 would be attending, but didn’t write anyone else’s name down. I touched base...

We're not planning to have a large rehearsal dinner; it will only be for those involved in the wedding ceremony (bridesmaids & groomsmen + their plus ones, parents, and speakers). So with the...

I've listed on both my website and invitations addressed to those with children and grandchildren that we are having an adult-only wedding. Outer envelopes were addressed explicitly only to those...

So one of my bridesmaids foresees herself getting engaged to her boyfriend in the near future (yay!!) and casually mentioned to me a few weeks ago that she’d like me to be her MoH when the time comes....

I’m trying to host a day after wedding event- since we are getting married on a Friday, we want to hold a meet up for those staying in town Saturday. Any tips on how to approach venues for this? I’m...

Hey all, so our venue gave us a "tipping sheet" to reference for what the industry standard usually is; our venue is all inclusive, so they said tipping is not required but if we felt they went above...

What is proper etiquette? Do you actually send the registry gift to their house or bring it to the bridal shower? Is the registry gift a wedding gift or bridal shower gift? Confused!

I've read through SO MANY articles with song lists, and most of what I've found have either felt too grabby, or they just weren't fun songs to dance to. So I'm looking for inspiration! NOTE: Please...

Hello everybody, I was wondering has anybody used and came across legit websites for bridesmaid dresses? I want to make getting a dress simple and easy, especially since two of my bridesmaids are out...

We're mostly seeing this issue with cousins from the same generation as us living with our aunts/uncles. A couple of notes here: - Children below the age of 18 are not invited because we're having an...