Discussions I've participated in

So both my fiance and I have divorced parents. We are both experiencing both sides voicing how they do not want to sit near the other or even have to see the other. This is going to be a little hard...

Hey all! I have an issue that I am not sure even is an issue or not. One of my bridesmaids' birthdays is the day before the wedding and day of rehearsal/dinner. I wasn't aware her birthday was the day...

Hi there!!! I am decided to purchase my BMs jewelry as one of their gifts. I am hoping to stay around $100 per girl but willing spend a bit more if needed. Anyone know where I can find jewelry...

Hi guys! We finally got our venue and have paid the deposit! Currently looking at photographers and florist for our 03/2025 wedding. Im thinking I’d rather buy or rent flowers than have a florist, im...

I'm having a small intimate 40 max count wedding and I'm struggling on who is going to be the DJ and play our music. The reception would be anywhere from 5:00pm-12:00am and DJs are pretty pricey :/...

Hi everyone! Just looking for some guidance on what timeline to follow. I’m planning myself & every app or website has a completely different wedding timeline. Some say to get the dress 1 year or...

My sister is getting married in a spooky Halloween ceremony wearing black next October. I've seen a lot of people negatively react to her desire for her and the groom to be the only ones wearing all...

Hi all! I am getting married 9/23 and was thinking about the wedding cards. How did/will you collect cards? At my first wedding, I just had a satin bag but I’ve seen card boxes used now. I like the...

Hello, My cocktail hour is really a 'half hour' and I want to incorporate something other than just drinks, music and cocktail tables. Any ideas?

Hi everyone, I am hoping you can give me your recommendation for this situation. I have two friends that had been dating for a while (yes, both are individual friends of mine, though the girl and I...

We invited 106 guests and our current count is 66, still waiting on 8 more RSVPs…I feel silly being concerned by the low number because we were originally trying to have a 50 person list and...

Hello, I am a new bride (4 months ago was our wedding day on the 22nd). I am increasingly torn on changing my last name. I am military so have even more additional hoops to jump through to change my...

I have gone on a few tours and can't afford these venue prices. I'm in New York and venues are charging on a Saturday in April between 24-30k for the venue, catering and, bar. What are my options if I...

Hey folks, I was a little obsessive about maximizing my vendor choice — I did phone interviews and received proposals from 10 different florists! They’re responsible for creating the ambience of the...

Hello, I am having an issue with one of my bridesmaids and I am in need of some advice. Lets start off when I asked her to be my bridesmaid. She seemed excited but didnt ask any questions as you would...

Hi, all so I am officially in the throes of planning a wedding and we are now selecting photographers and videographers. My partner and I have narrowed it down to 3 choices. One of which seems very...