Discussions I've participated in

Would you mind if you went to a destination wedding and found out the bride and groom were legally married before the ceremony? While searching this topic, I found a lot of responses saying they would...

Anyone else getting married in the next month? We are requiring vaccines for our guests and providing masks but the number of breakthrough cases has me feeling super stressed. We are considering...

I’m getting married Saturday, and have had 10 guests cancel this past week (6 in just the past 2 days). Has anyone else been absolutely shocked by high rates of last minute cancellations? It’s...

Okay ladies- I need some advice here. A friend of mine and formerly college roommate is coming into town for my wedding which is next weekend (Jan 16). At the moment, I'm going a million miles a...

Considering eloping just the two of us and our dogs. I think its a great ideal, as neither of us are big on attention, so as we started planning out wedding, there were a lot of "traditional" things...

I’m not a fan of buffets at restaurants but I feel I’ve seen buffets and it’s good, common for weddings. I was leaning that route initially thinking Mexico wedding having several options but got...

Any ideas for our 20th wedding vow renewal. Last name is Tennant, first names Nick and Kristin. TIA!!

Some brides run the wedding party like a military operation or popularity contest. Things have to be done a certain way that is impossible to attain or doesn’t respect them as individuals or they risk...

What's everyone color for their wedding?

Hi everyone! My FH and I are struggling to decide what to do for the rehearsal dinner. Our wedding is going to be about 150, which sounds like a lot, but we have large families and they take up a lot...

My fiancé is planning his bachelor party and I asked him to not have strippers and he smiles and said I can’t control it if anyone brings them and I said ok then let everyone know to not do that and...

So we recently attended my cousins wedding and my fiancés name was not listed on the table setting. We sent out our save the dates months ago and my cousin and wife are invited so they received one as...

I feel ridiculous. I am the bride, I should be absolutely ecstatic right? I am over the moon with happiness that I get to marry my future husband. I have a little over a month until I’d marry him and...

Hi everyone- my wedding is about a month away (Jan 16, 2022) and I'm getting some pre-wedding jitters! Just want to make sure everything goes smoothly and as planned (I know it won't go perfectly but...

Hi everyone, I'm about 3 months out from my wedding day and starting to get the actual nerves about potential drama kicking in. Long story short, I have some family members that have been openly...

Hi Guys! So we are getting married at the end of the month, and as far as desserts go we have opted out of a cake. We will have a donut wall, but I feel like we need something else- preferably...

My family never wanted to meet my now fiancé since we started dating even though he has asked to meet with them for 4 years. As luck would have it, I'm a Christmas baby. Last Christmas, he took me on...

How did you decide on the design and flavor(s) of your cakes?? Will they reflect your venue, color scheme, florals, season of your wedding? Also, please feel free to share pictures (or your...