i hate my wedding

Do you have the resources to hire someone to do this for you? It makes me sad you are hating every minute of it. Stay strong!

I had exactly the same thoughts! So much effort is spent, as if we are organizing a whole festival! It helps me that I have a clear plan, it calms me down.

I relate! We have 11 days left and people are losing their sh**...and not in a good way. I've been so over it and we also would've cancelled if any of the vendors would've been willing to give us our money back but we can't soooo I just decided to change my perspective. Even though everything seems to be going horribly wrong, we still get to have an awesome party in honor of my and my favorite human and if nothing else goes right at least the two of us will have a good time. That's been helpful to me, so hopefully it will help you too! Best of luck, girl. We'll get through it and the day will be beautiful.

It really is stressful! I gave up planning like 5 times, and then kept changing the date like 3 times.. If it weren't for my husband's cousin to help me then I would've just eloped.

My husband was pretty clueless when it came to wedding planning. Every time I kept asking him to go over stuff because we were both funding our wedding ourselves he would be stressed out and annoyed. But I always backfired and told him now he knew how I felt lol.

So, I totally understand hun. Do you happen to know anyone (siblings, other relatives, or friends) that can help you through this? If not I would start designating people to help you on certain things. Someone can make phone calls for you, add you onto the emails for vendors, help you find a venue, etc.

It does sound like eloping would bring you so much more joy.

I know it can be tricky with family having flights already planned, but with the Omicron variant I'm sure many people are reconsidering travel anyway. Maybe use the pandemic as an excuse to have a smaller event and ditch the whole big wedding?

You'll lose some of your deposit money, but will still save in the long run and will probably be much happier and less stressed.

I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed. The final month is the worst. My husband and I had our share of words because we nearly drove each other crazy. I think it's time for you to sit down and have a talk with your fiance. In addition to letting him know your needs, find out what his are. Perhaps the reason he seems "clueless" is because he's equally overwhelmed. This is where you should start. Once you've talked with him, you'll have a better idea how to go forward. Trust me, it will be a beautiful day! Our certainly was. It made all that stress worth it.

It can be stressful. We had the same problems and to be honest it felt very overwhelming. For us it all came together at the end. In the end I just decided to have fun. Glad I did. Hang in there!

Honestly this is the realistic side of wedding planning that you're experiencing!

so many people think it's going to be all rosy and sparkles but in reality, weddings are time consuming to plan and they're expensive and can be stressful! many brides eventually feel it all culminate and it becomes as if the event is just a chore to plan rather than it being fun like expected

please make sure to take some self care and know that your day is going to be beautiful regardless