Discussions I've participated in

After the wedding reception will you and your hubby be the first to leave or will y'all be staying til the end and why?

Hi! I'm excitedly planning my wedding for next year! To have my perfect day I'm making cuts whenever possible. We will be having a cash bar to save money. We've already set up a GoFundMe so guests can...

We plan to do cupcakes and don't want to get a small cake because it kind of defeats the point of saving money and coordinating rentals. Is anyone else doing this? Are you planning to cut a single...

I've seen some places require vaccine or require several negative tests just to go to restaurants and stuff (Puerto Rico). What are the top destinations for those who are not vaccinated?

So my future husband and I are very interested in creating our own wedding bands since 1) I'm not into the wedding band style for women that is popular right now with all the diamonds and 2) we want a...

Hi! My partner and I are recently engaged and will be getting married 4/23/23. We're both geekier people. We like things such as Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Game of Thrones, D&D. On top of...

We mailed our invitations over a month ago for our 10/16 wedding day. As we have been talking to some of our guests this week we are finding out they never received our invites. They were never...

Our wedding is exactly 30 days away, we picked up our marriage license today, and am so excited that we're so close now! This has been a very stressful experience with everything going on but at the...

So yesterday while packing my childhood room up to start getting ready to move in with FH I had a panic attack. Anyone else have something like this happen. I 1000% have zero doubts so that’s why I...

I am currently in the middle of doing all the name change stuff, and I'm wondering what (if at all) i have to do for my covid vaccine card. Has anyone changed their name on their vaccine card? Will it...

I thought I'd run this etiquette-ish question by the community to see what the thoughts are on this! We've invited my 4-year-old nephew to be the ringbearer at the wedding. We got him a little book...

Hey everyone. Im hiring 2 photographers that own a business and they asked me if I would be having a videographer. What do you think? Photos, videos or both?

My fiancé and I are trying to cut catering costs, because it's crazy expensive where I live. One of my friends suggested that we double the amount of hors d'oeuvres that we serve and then order a...

I’ve been to 2 weddings where cupcakes were given out instead. I am thinking about doing that with a small cake on top of tier for us to “cut the cake” we eat the cake as we feed each other too! Any...

For those that are requiring vaccines to attend, are you going off the honor system, or are you requiring people to submit proof?

I'm curious what's everyone doing or thinking of doing in terms of covid attendance policies... 1) vaccinated only, 2) vaccinated or test out, 3) vaccinated or mask, or 4) no vaccination requirement...

I’m curious to get others’ thoughts on this. I’ve recently witnessed several weddings and showers with themes that are not meaningful at all to the bride or the couple. Examples: A breakfast at...

We've finished tracking down our final RSVP's, and I'm feeling kinda sad as certain people have RSVP'ed no. They have absolutely valid reasons, and yet, after rescheduling our wedding for a third time...

Does a travel agent help you get discounted rates for honeymoon ? Is it worth it ?