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Violetstorme
Violetstorme

Hello! I have really bad anxiety so I don't really like to use my actual name or pictures. We just rescheduled our wedding from 2021 to 2022 and hoping to... View More

Hello! I have really bad anxiety so I don't really like to use my actual name or pictures. We just rescheduled our wedding from 2021 to 2022 and hoping to get that planning done early. I love to make things and I'm working on planning a gothic themed wedding with some sub-themes mixed in (vintage/steampunk/tribal). My FH is adorable and eccentric and amazing and the love of my life :D

Happily married 🎉

October 1, 2022

588days 16hrs
Violetstorme
Venue Selections
Violetstorme, on January 14, 2021 at 11:33 PM

How many venues did you and your future partner look at before deciding it was the one? Did you both walk in and instantly know that it was the place you had to have for your wedding or did you find...

Samantha, Jan 19, 2021 41
Kelsey
i am stuck between two dresses! Please give me your opinion #1 or #2
Kelsey, on January 13, 2021 at 8:22 AM

We are a destination wedding and the location is going to be in front of a waterfall. I initially came into the shop for #2 becuase I’m attracted to the bohemian laid back feel of the dress. However,...

Sam, Jan 18, 2021 39 1
Brianna
Specifying Dress Code=tacky and rude?
Brianna, on January 13, 2021 at 7:30 PM

We have plenty of time to plan, so I'm taking my time to weigh my options with everything. However, I'm so torn on this. We're having an upscale wedding, I think our guests can tell that just by...

CM, Jan 26, 2024 99
Morgan
Rsvps
Morgan, on January 12, 2021 at 6:36 PM

My invitations have RSVP cards, and I will be sending them out as well, but is anyone setting up an RSVP option online? What are opinions on this?

Ireasha, Jan 13, 2021 17
B
Table assignments
Bride2Be, on January 13, 2021 at 7:41 PM

For those of you who are assigning people to a specific table, are you also assigning them to a specific seat? Are you doing individual guest cards or one board for people to read off of? Are you...

mrswinteriscoming, Jan 14, 2021 21
Shell'a
Should i ask all of my sisters to be my bridesmaids?
Shell'a, on January 12, 2021 at 9:05 PM

I have 3 little sisters, im getting married next year. By then my sisters will be 22, 19 and 16. I was planning to ask my 22 year old sister for sure, and most likely my 19 year old sister as well....

Shell'a, Jan 14, 2021 26
Future Mrs.Randolph
How much arguing is too much
Future Mrs.Randolph, on January 12, 2021 at 11:18 AM

Of course it is normal for a couple to disagree at times even me and my FH can sometimes not be on the same page, but how would much disagreeing and how much arguing is too much though?

Samantha, Jan 22, 2021 13
Julie
Consumption Bar - what to do once consumed?
Julie, on January 11, 2021 at 11:17 PM

Hey guys! My venue was going to be about $20K for just alcohol so we opted to do a consumption balance down and then once it’s used, it’ll be transferred to cash bar. We put $4K down,...

Ty, Jan 13, 2021 19
Nikki
Wedding 9am-12pm
Nikki, on January 8, 2021 at 1:30 PM

I am struggling to make a schedule for my wedding, our send off has to be at 11pm but I don’t know about a schedule. Help please!!!

Violetstorme, Jan 12, 2021 7 1
RaylaSan
Is it normal for people to not Rsvp?
RaylaSan, on January 11, 2021 at 10:18 PM

So my wedding is literally next month, and only about 1% of my guests have actually RSVPed. Of course, I have taken COVID into account and everything, but is it normal for people to just not RSVP at...

Slrhoshi, Jan 12, 2021 14
Emily
Perfume
Emily, on January 12, 2021 at 12:37 AM

Has anyone heard of doing a specific perfume on your wedding day? If so- which ones?!

Tracyberge, Feb 6, 2023 10 1
mrswinteriscoming
Destination Wedding - How generous of a gift to give?
mrswinteriscoming, on January 12, 2021 at 12:20 AM

Later this year, FH and I are attending a relative’s destination wedding. I have calculated that between fuel, accommodation and food costs, we will be spending upwards of $600 attending. Each...

mrswinteriscoming, Mar 14, 2021 19
Nicole
Table cloths!
Nicole, on January 11, 2021 at 11:46 PM

Hi all!!! My venue provides table cloths but they only go half way and at a certain angle they show the legs. I’m a little nuts about that kind of stuff and it bothers me that I can see the legs!!...

Cyndy, Jan 13, 2021 7
Casey
Dress Alterations - to the extreme?
Casey, on January 11, 2021 at 6:16 PM

My dress is in and ready, we’re just waiting until closer to the wedding date to start alterations. I have constant dress regret and I think it’s because I fell in love with the neckline/torso area of...

Sam, Feb 7, 2021 10
MLS
Deleting posts
MLS, on January 11, 2021 at 6:51 PM

Why can't we delete posts? It's super frustrating.

Jo, Jan 12, 2021 7
Victoria
Bachelorette Party in covid times
Victoria, on January 11, 2021 at 10:56 AM

Hey y’all! Just curious for those who have already navigated through this during this weird time-how did your Bachelorette parties go? I’m planning on having mine Memorial Day weekend in Austin, TX...

RaylaSan, Jan 31, 2021 10 1
Kayla
Who to walk me down the aisle?
Kayla, on January 11, 2021 at 9:16 AM

So this has been stressing me out for sometime. Here is my situation. My father is alive and growing up we were very close. However when I got into high school his drinking started to become a...

Slrhoshi, Jan 12, 2021 7
J
Shouldn’t wedding planning be joyful and not so tear filled?
Jasmine, on January 11, 2021 at 9:25 AM

With a September 4th reception date and the Pandemic still happening (with a hopeful end in site), I’m unsure what to do! Actually, I’m freaking out! No one in our family and few in our friend’s...

Jasmine, Jan 14, 2021 16
B
i got my dress!!
Bridget, on January 10, 2021 at 9:48 PM

With only 103 days left until my wedding I finally picked a dress!

Bridget, Jan 11, 2021 19
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