Discussions from Kam in WeddingWire

Is white jacket okay?

Kam, on September 16, 2020 at 9:56 PM

I have a bridal shower next weekend and it will be a little chilly as it is an outdoor event due to covid (60 degrees). My dress is green, as a bride would you be offended if I wore a white jacket?? I...

Tiger Bride, Sep 17, 2020 6

Not planning on feeding= don’t make it mandatory

Kam, on September 14, 2020 at 9:13 PM

Please do not invite your bridal party to a rehearsal and then proceed to tell them there will be no dinner to follow. I’m not taking time off of work to walk down an aisle (which I already know how...

Mrs. Coakley, Sep 17, 2020 22

Groomsmen backing out 24 days before the wedding

Mandee, on September 2, 2020 at 7:50 PM

I am about to lose my mind. My FH's youngest brother was supposed to be in our wedding in September and said he would be there no matter what. His wife got pregnant roughly nine months ago and is due...

Judith, Sep 7, 2020 17

Bridesmaid drop out turned kicked out turned family feud

Kam, on August 29, 2020 at 2:29 AM

For some context, my cousin is getting married in 2 weeks. She is having a more intimate ceremony/reception this year and having a full vow renewal/reception next year due to covid. Both events are 6+...

Shirley, Aug 31, 2020 20

Masks During Ceremony

Rachel, on August 17, 2020 at 1:50 PM

Please tell me if I am being entirely unreasonable. We are getting married Oct. 17, 2020. Members of our bridal party have told us that if they plan on wearing a mask, then they would take it off for...

Amber, Aug 24, 2020 69 5

Is this reasonable? Hair and makeup

Kam, on August 5, 2020 at 9:54 PM

You ladies have been great with feedback, this question is for a friend who is the MOH in an upcoming wedding. The bride is still having a mini ceremony with immediate family and just the MOH/Best Man...

Maggie, Aug 6, 2020 13 240

Covid Gift Etiquette

Kam, on August 4, 2020 at 8:50 PM

I am attending a wedding ceremony in a few weeks for a family member whose larger reception and vow renewal has been postponed to next year. Do I give a gift this year at the mini ceremony or do I...

Kam, Aug 5, 2020 7

Cutting The Guestlist

Trisha, on May 5, 2020 at 11:16 AM

So Our Wedding Is In October, Still Plan On Having It. If Anything We’ll Have To Cut The Guest List To 50 People, From Our Previous 60. No Big Deal. But How Would We Tell These People They Have Been...

Jana, May 8, 2020 26 1

Out of state guest and covid- what would you do?

Kam, on April 23, 2020 at 4:04 PM

One of my husband’s best friends still has their wedding planned for mid-July across the country from where we live. We have already booked our flights and I received an email notification that we...