Discussions I've participated in

My fiance and I have been together for two and a half years and will be getting married in December. He has a unique (very niche) hobby that isn't cheap. Without going into too much detail, the guy is...

We want to have our wedding at our church but they just recently finished renovations (this includes a brand new carpet). Because of this they are asking that we do not bring food into the sanctuary....

Hello 2024 brides ! I need advice , my future husband has not gotten his guest list together when our kids wedding planner said last October he needed to finalize his guest list MONTHS ago . He also...

I’m a bridesmaid in 2 weddings this year. Both brides are requiring us to have hair professionally done by their stylist. One is requiring a specific updo, the other isn’t. I have hair loss and...

I became engaged on November 2nd and had a secret city hall wedding with my husband on the 16th. The reason for the secret marriage is that I carry good insurance and my husband is a self employed...

My fiance’s sister keeps having mental breakdowns. Recently she was saying things like she hates her twin sister’s husband for stealing her twin from her, and she called him up and started yelling at...

Trying to figure out our wedding food has been a nightmare! My partner & I are planning a medieval gothic wedding in early November. We originally wanted a Halloween wedding, but I guess over the...

I’m 75 days away from my wedding and suddenly I am SO sad. No one is as excited as I am and it feels kind of lonely. I feel annoying as I post reminders to RSVP on Instagram to my close friends group,...

Hi all, I'll preface this by saying I would have been okay with not getting married; I (36F) am a bit more of an introvert and homebody, not very romantic, and haven't enjoyed many weddings I've...

We decided quite a while ago that we were going to get a Cake made up of burfi but we cant decide on the flavors. We know the bottom layer will be pistachio but we can't decide the other two. They...

What are the pros and cons of a Zola "Newlywed Registry"? Our website is on Zola. We wanted to create a cash fund for starting to build a home on our land. It seems much easier to just use the...

SIL invited other SILs in Bridal Party and I’m hurt to be excluded. just want to first caveat that I acknowledge that a bride has the right to choose who she wants in her wedding party, should not be...

I come from a lower middle class background. My mom spent most of her working career as a baker in a grocery store and my dad was a welder. There were four kids in my family and I'm the youngest. It...

So FH was adamant he didn’t want more than 4 GM , so we agreed that would be our number (we wanted it even) however I struggled bc 2 of my BM are my sisters, 1 is my FSIL, and my MOH is my best...

My group of friends and I have been really close friends. My husband and I did elope this month but had two months preparation for the wedding so everything was rushed. My friends were all busy,...

We are having our wedding at a brewery we have less 70 people coming we have to break everything down out self so we are trying to keep things simple. Does anyone have ideas on alternative way for...

My Halloween Boo booo is that I lost my photographers I paid them $1,200 and they going to tell me that's not my price. I showed them this what wanted so he pulled out at the last minute do...