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Has anyone ever used the knot for invitations? What was your experience? I found a suite I love but can find barely any info about whether they are reliable for stationary.

I'm looking for some advice about the etiquette for addressing the save the dates and wedding invitations. For save the dates, can we exclude the Mr., Ms., Mrs., etc.? Or do those need to be included...

Which do you prefer as a bride and as a guest? What do your guests like best? Based on those, what style did you decide on?

Hi everyone! My husband (!!) and I got married October 30 and had a long honeymoon. Now we’re back and getting into writing thank you cards but we noticed a number of people didn’t get us gifts. Has...

Is it weird to make a go fund me for our wedding? Part of me feels like it’s being rude asking other people to pay for our wedding but the other part (the cheap a**hole part) thinks that it’s not that...

Hello brides! During the pandemic my fiancé and I took in two dogs; One being a Shepard-mix and a mini dachshund and would like to name our signature drink after them. While we were able to come up...

Just based on our guest count and venue space logistics, a few of our guest tables kinda have to have 9 people. Has anyone sat 9 guests at 60 inch round, did it work out okay? Or has anyone been...

You all I really thought my guest list would have been different. It's a smallish list of close family and friends. We are 1 week from the deadline to rsvp and I still have over half of the list who...

The general rule of thumb is about 8 weeks. How early would you say is okay to send them, and how late do you think is okay to send them?

How do I tell wedding guests that they must be vaccinated if they are planning to attend our wedding?

Hey all! we don’t really want speeches (unless any of our people absolutely want to!). Have you been to weddings where there were no speeches? Were they missed? We are also thinking of us toasting our...

How did you decide what food presentation you wanted for your guests?

Hi there, I’m 29 days out from my wedding and seating chart planning has started. Wanted to know how many adults can sit comfortably at a 60’ round table? I googled this and some websites says 6-8...

Is anyone else with not-so-great handwriting addressing their save the date's and invites themselves? I have pretty messy handwriting unless I write quite slowly so writing out all of these names and...

Hi! Has anybody ever sent out Save The Dates without you and your fiancé’s photo on it? Does it look weird? Is that a relatively normal thing to do? Thank you!

Hey Everyone! I am getting married in October 2022 - and my MOH and I have gone back and forth a bit about Bachelorette parties. The problem is - I am not 100% sure what to do! My issue is I am a full...

My FH and I work for the same company so everyone at our job knows us, our relationship, and that we are getting married next year. We keep to our personal/professional boundaries and do not hang out...

Hello everyone do we have any Nov brides on here , if so how ur planning going .

Hi everyone, looking for advice regarding an exclusively outdoor wedding for 10/1/22. Is this too late in the year in Massachusetts for an outdoor ceremony and reception? It is a pavilion type set up....

My FH and the groomsmen will all be wearing charcoal gray suits. But I’m thinking of having FH in a vest as well, and just a two piece suit for the groomsmen. Anyone done this and have pictures? I’m...