Discussions I've participated in

So I’ll warn you right now that this is waaaay TMI, but it’s something I’ve been feeling really anxious about lately, and I really wanted to get some idea of how other people deal with it. I hate...

Hi everyone, So I was supposed to be married in August of 2020 (engaged summer 2019) due to Covid we pushed it back to June 2021 and again, had to postpone. Our wedding is being held overseas in Fiji...

I’m having a destination wedding and wondering if I should hire a wedding planner or not? Anyone having destination wedding planning everything themselves?

I'm in the early stages of planning my wedding and I would love to hear the unique things y'all did for your weddings!

So I'm the matron of honor in my best friend's wedding next March, and I'm trying to help her find somewhere to get ready with the rest of the bridal party. The venue she chose has a "bridal suite"...

Looking to speak with any couples that have booked this venue in Hawaii.

I want to plan my marriage in hawaii with very few attending...15 at most? I'm not a planner and trying to save money to plan my own wedding and have no idea where to begin!! We have aonth and year...

Is anyone else going DIY crazy over their wedding decorations? I found it super fun, and I got to personalize a LOT of what I wanted to decorate the reception venue, all while saving tons of money. I...

Hi Hawai'i brides! Our wedding is coming up in a few weeks (I literally can't believe all the stars have aligned and our dream wedding is able to happen!! OMG!) and I'm already starting to think about...

We’re getting married in Our backyard on 10/24/2020. I’m going to send invites to stream our ceremony through paperless post. Has anyone had or participated in zoom or eventlive weddings? What are the...

We've been planning our "destination" wedding on O'ahu (we met in college at UH Manoa) since before the pandemic. We decided that we're going to keep our date no matter what, and either elope or...

So for our wedding, for not only safety due to COVID but also for current venue requirements, we're not able to have a DJ/dancing and are looking for alternative entertainment options. Guests need to...

When I picked my venue I already had a wedding planner due to a long story that's not necessary for context. I have already invested money and I really like them. So I'm keeping them. But I did not...

What has everyone been doing for an engagement party?

Has anyone dealt with nonresponsive vendors? I signed a contract for a DJ and he was supposed to send over payment info so I can pay the deposit. It's been almost two weeks and I still haven't heard...

Anything that makes no sense to you that popped up in the last 5-10 years as trendy that you will not be including at all?

Hi everyone, I'm getting married in November and have my wedding party all set but my grandmother is trying to guilt me into adding my cousins kids(5 of them) into the wedding party. She's saying that...