Discussions I've participated in

I need some advice. From the beginning my fiancé and I decided we were going to do the music ourselves. It felt like a waste to pay for a DJ when all we need is ceremony music and background music for...

Hi! I will try to keep this short and was hoping for some advice. My fiancé’s friends are getting married in October. He has this friend group of four guys and their wives/significant others. They’re...

Hi everyone! After cancelling our wedding, my fiancé and I are trying to plan things again. Our ideas of what we want have drastically changed, originally we were going to invite close to 60 people,...

I was wondering how many brides do their own make up and hair or do all brides hire someone for their day.

Long post, sorry. This isn’t a completely a covid thing. Backstory: my best friend works at a restaurant - the same restaurant for nearly 10 years. They’ve been her family, but they do take advantage...

Yesterday my fiancé and I decided to cancel our May 2021 wedding and to hold off on any new plans. While there are so many unknowns with the virus, I’m aware that many people are planning for spring...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I still have plenty of time to figure out what we’d like to do for our cake and search for vendors, but we’d like to start coming up with ideas. It’s been a little...

I have no bridesmaids just a maid honor. We are looking at doing a rental with a pool and hot tub a month before the wedding for my wedding with 12 of my closest girls. What is an appropriate price...

Is anyone else not doing a rehearsal dinner?? IMO they are a waste of money, and I am confident we all know how to walk down an aisle and stand on the appropriate side. Curious to see if anyone else...

Hey everyone, this is my first post. So I’ve always wanted a winter wedding with a winter wonderland theme, I think the snow is so romantic and just the cozy vibe a winter wedding brings. My only...

Wondering how my fellow may 2021 or 2021 brides in general are doing with planning?? Are y’all concerned about next year for weddings? Are you still going forward with planning things?

I absolutely dislike about 99 percent of my photos, which is a shame because I typically like what I see when I look in the mirror. I'm concerned about spending a lot of money on photography only to...

Hello! I just talked to my first wedding flower vendor yesterday and was totally SHOCKED at the price I was quoted. Over $600 for a bouquet for me, a boutonnière for him, and 7 centerpieces. I...

We’re hoping to send out save the dates soon and need to finalize our guest list. Our venue is small and only holds 50 people. We made a list that is just shy of that number of the family and friends...