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Okay, hear me out. Also on 6/26, my fiancé’s cousin is getting married. This cousin is on the side of HIS family that we don’t really ever see as well. They live several hours away and I’ve actually...

Hello fellow brides! Are any of you nervous about looking good in your wedding photos? I’m not doubting the skills of my photographer and videographer, they have a great portfolio. But there’s so much...

I am currently thinking of ways to write out or RSVP cards (and save money!). With that being said, is it "okay" to not include an envelope with the RSVP card and encourage guests to use our link for...

Hi everyone. We originally planned our wedding to begin at 6pm, however, we just learned one of our son’s will be in a mandatory training program the week of our wedding that ends at 5pm. He needs...

Did you forget anything on your wedding day? What was it?

Are you planning these or did you have them? Are they common enough in your circles instead of a rehearsal dinner that guests weren’t confused by them? If they are unknown to your circle, how did your...

I need some advice.. I had asked best friend since college and her daughter to stand up in my wedding this coming November (2021) back in December, and of course they both said YES!. Since that...

My bridesmaid just informed me casually that her hair will be BLACK AND RED for my wedding. Like harley quinn colors. My colors are forest green and gold and I've asked everyone to wear a neutral...

Hello forum, I have recently found out one of my bridesmaids plans to leave my wedding early to try and make it to another wedding over an hour and a half away. I don't know how to respond to her, but...

Looking back at your wedding day, what do you wish you could have changed? Aside from things out of your control, what advice do you have moving forward? Whether it was something no one advised you of...

We sent out our invites and we’ve received 2 so far marked “declines with regret” and check: cash included along with handwritten notes on the back of our RSVP card. I have a few questions and I am...

Hi guys! I need some advice. My fiancé and I are devoutly religious but are struggling keeping our hands off each other. Due to 1 Corinthians 7:9, we are considering a civil union to solve our...

Hello all! I am planning a “destination wedding” for 2022. I use quotes because it is half destination as the grooms family lives in Mexico. We are renting out a private villa for the wedding party to...

Can’t stop looking at wedding pictures? Neither can we! Every Monday we'll post a round-up of all of the community photo posts from the previous week so you never miss a wedding, shower, bach party,...

Hello! I was originally supposed to be married October 2020. However, due to the pandemic and personal sickness, we postponed to October 2021. Without getting into too much detail, last year I was...

I’ve decided to have one MOH and 2 bridesmaids, but my fiancée isn’t too close to many of his friends, so we’re struggling to come up with 3 groomsmen for him. We’re thinking of his best friend being...

Hi, Everyone! I’m sure this has already been discussed, but is anyone walking down the aisle to an instrumental song rather than one with lyrics? The reason I’m asking is because I’m really struggling...

My FH and I are now starting to write our toast to our guests together! My FH writes really well and I love his ideas and flow etc. I’m excited to start this and I was just wondering if any of you...

My daughter is getting married June 12, 2021. It's already been postponed twice (third times a charm!) due to Covid. I am paying for the event, I'm divorced from her father and he is not helping...

Hi all! My fiancé and I want to do some sort of unity ceremony during our wedding (tying the three strands, sand pouring, planting a tree, etc.). We aren’t super crazy about any of the common unity...