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Hi ladies! We set our wedding date for May 15, 2021 before the pandemic was even a thought. We felt very safe in our date up until recently we now don’t know what to think. We are getting married in...

I'm torn between what to have engraved on my FH wedding band. I was thinking either "My Significant Otter 04/04/20" or "Forever and Always 04/04/20". I really wanted Forever and Always My Significant...

Hello, My bridal shower is scheduled for March 1st. We invited around 25 people. A lot of people are busy and have been RSVPing no. Only 9 people have RSVPd yes. The bridal shower is at a tea house...

Hey everyone, my dress is Blush and I'm just having a hard time finding the right shoes? any brides out there with a blush colored or beaded dresses? Also there are just no shoes in stores am I the...

I hope I don’t come across as shallow. When we met my SO had a job, not making much, but a steady career that could be advanced with just a little school (1 year or so) if he chose. He lucked into (by...

Hello! I just had a quick question. I haven’t created my Zola website yet, but once I do, will we be able to create our own link? Like.... www.zola.com/*whatever I want here* We are trying to order...

So I just got married and didn’t change my name - however, my pastor told me I had to sign my “married” name on the license regardless. Since I didn’t change my name afterward, does that mean I’m not...

We recently sent out our invitations while had “Adults Only Reception” clearly on them. We are having a huge wedding (we are estimating 350), and if kids were allowed, that number would sky rocket....

We're getting married in June and are not going on a honeymoon right away. We're still taking a week off after to relax and have our mini honeymoon. I still want it to be fun and romantic though. Any...

I fell in love with a dress two months after getting engaged and bought it! It’s at least 3-5 sizes too big because I got it from an outlet but so worth it! I’m wondering when how many months before...

I had my first dress fitting today and it was so exciting! It is feeling so real!! I hope everyone else is enjoying planning

So our wedding is in October and I am anxious to starting buying ‘things’! How far out did you buy your bridal party/parents gifts, your guest book, reception items (toasting flutes/cake cutting set)...

So I’m getting married in 5 months and my FH and I have no kids of our own and do not want any children at our wedding. Period. We’ve made this very clear from the beginning but are still receiving...

Should the maid of honor wear a different color dress from the other bridesmaids? I know she can wear a different shade of the same color or a different style of the same color but should she ever...

What is the best way to tell guests you don’t want gifts or that you don’t have a registry. And that you would prefer monetary gifts. Our custom is to pay the plate cost per person attending the...