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My officiant had to cancel, any ideas?

Was asked in the height of the pandemic to be a BM to a friend of 4 years.. I knew she was thinking out of the country for the wedding in 2022 . She mentioned somewhere tropical or abroad, she herself...

Hello everyone, I was hoping to hear what everyone's splurge item/purchase/hire is regarding your wedding and your budget (should you have one). I knew going into the beginning of our wedding planning...

My wedding is till next year 9/6/22 I don’t know if I should start looking for a dress and start sending invitations ?

Why can't people send rsvp's back? How hard is this? If it's a no, say no even if it's a maybe, shoot a text saying you are trying to work something out but just not sending it is rude. At least mail...

So my boyfriend and I have been couple friends with this couple that lives across the street. We have only ever known them as a couple and only ever have hung out as a group of 4. We are super close...

I’m having a very difficult time deciding who to keep in my wedding party. I asked 8 of my girlfriends and left 2 very important ones out. I can’t have 10 people and I think I’ve jumped the gun on who...

Hi guys! We are getting married in October and I cannot wait. Since our guest list was not that large, we gave every single guest the option of a plus one. While we didn’t originally have rules on...

Hi wedding peeps, I have a question about etiquette after being fired from my position of Matron of Honor. The bride knows I have anxiety, a newborn and other such stressors, and said she was...

I've having trouble figuring out what steps to do first. I'm getting married in South Dakota but I am a resident of Minnesota. On the South Dakota Marriage License application, do I need to write my...

I wrote another post but was short on time so wrote a very confusing post so clearing it up here. To make things easy: Bride - KC Friend - Lexy So my best friend of 11 years (since beginning of high...

Hey ladies and gents, this is kind of a rough topic. So, me and my fiancé got engaged back in February and have been working our butts off to prepare for our January 7th, 2022 wedding. Well, my family...

Hi all! I was wondering if anyone has involved, or plans to involve, their dog(s) in their wedding ceremony? I have three dogs, but I think I'd want to involve just one of them. Is that mean of me? My...

Has anyone else noticed that when couples say they wrote their own vows…. they aren’t actually vows? I’ve been noticing this at every wedding I have attended recently, as well as most of the weddings...

What are you saying in your vows? Are you just listing promises? Which ones? Mentioning things you love about the other? Mentioning other things? Are you keeping them long/short? Serious/lighthearted?...

I have seen a new trend on social media where the newlywed bride goes to toss the bouquet and instead she hands it over to a guest and then that persons partner proposes to them. In the comment...

Hi all! I need some help. We’ve been engaged almost 2 years (thanks Covid) and from the very beginning we’ve said no kids (wanting a small, intimate, adult party). The only exception is my niece and 3...

Me and my husband got married in 2019. Due do a family emergency we were not able to have the wedding we always dreamt about so we decided to elope and have the ceremony later on. We are now able to...

Should I consider no response to RSVPs a "no" and not contact them after the due date? What percentage of the no responses to RSVPs turn out to be people not planning on attending? I hate having to...