Engaged to my best friend on February 9th, 2021💕 Got together in 2014 while in college but we met as freshman in HS in 2009! Both born & raised in NY... View More
Engaged to my best friend on February 9th, 2021💕 Got together in 2014 while in college but we met as freshman in HS in 2009! Both born & raised in NY where we live with our cats. We love road trips so we’re hoping to start full time RV life after we get married through the US & Canada!
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October 9, 2022
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44Okay so we're having a wedding 5 hours from where we live. No one we know lives there so everyone is going to have to drive 5 hours/ fly to our ceremony as we have family that lives farther away. I...
This is more just like a rant because I am panicking. I made quite a big mistake. I booked all of our vendors so far in advance for my wedding in October and I recently realized that because of some...
So we know what song we want to be our grand entrance into our reception. We have such a small wedding party (literally 4 people). Is it weird to enter to the same song? Maybe our DJ can just turn the...
So basically I know what song I want to walk down the aisle to and it has lyrics. I’m very set on using this version of the song and am not planning on changing it. However I’m stuck on the wedding...
Does anyone else feel there’s such pressure to cry on your wedding day? I feel like people judge your relationship if you don’t cry. You always see those videos of couples crying and everyone eats...
Would plastic plates be off putting to you as a guest? Real silverware and cups. Just plastic plates
Anyone else not doing the traditional party stuff for a wedding? My fiancé and I didn’t have an engagement party by choice and I’m not doing a bridal shower or bachelorette party/trip by choice (MAYBE...
Hello! For anyone already living with their partner before being married, did you decide to separate from your partner day before? Anyone give you qualms about not? My fiancé and I are having a...
Question: If you’re hiring a DJ and they ask for a playlist of songs you want to hear, how many are you giving them? What’s the amount you feel is appropriate. My fiancé and I are not on the same page...
Is anyone else not sticking really hard to their wedding colors? What I mean is that the colors for my wedding are burnt orange and burgundy. So my fiancé is wearing a burgundy colored suit and my...
What is proper etiquette for tipping vendors when they own their own business? Like we’re not using a general company for any of our services except videography. It’s all individuals who own their own...
So basically, my fiancé is wearing a burgundy color suit and his mother was thinking about wearing like a dark gray I think. I want her and my mother to compliment each other. Should I have her wear a...
So my dress should be in any day now. The boutique told me to have my first fitting around may and my wedding is in October. I imagine I’ll lose more weight after may. Will this be a problem? It won’t...
So I’m obviously doing a dance with my dad because I know it would mean a lot to him since I’ve decided not to have him walk me down the aisle. But he wasn’t very involved in my life and if it wasn’t...
I bought this dress and I really like it but I originally wanted straps. Should I have some added when I get it altered? Keep as is? Thoughts? Sort of like these dresses
If a venue says you have it until X time on your wedding day does that usually include clean up? Or is that what time you can have your ceremony until? We’re getting married on a Sunday and we only...
Getting married in October. Ordered my dress January 5th. Didn’t get a time it would be in and with 9 months I was a little concerned on timeline but not overly concerned about it, even with Covid...
We’re doing a buffet for our wedding. These are all the options we’ve chosen. We just haven’t fully sorted out our desserts yet. Thoughts on our choices? How would you feel as a guest? COCKTAIL HOUR...
So basically my dilemma is that I just bought my wedding dress last week. I’m not getting married until October but obviously I couldn’t wait much longer to get a dress especially with how long it’s...
I’m getting married next October. I’m from New York but I’m getting married in Maryland. I didn’t think I was going to have to worry about masks a year from now. But now New York just put a temporary...