Wedding color indecisiveness

It sounds to me like green is also a color for your wedding, and that's okay. I think as long as everything is cohesive it doesn't matter what your "official" colors are.

You're not crazy at all! Our invitations were just white with black font. I don't ever remember receiving wedding stationary that matched the colors of the wedding. The only thing we had that had our colors in it were the bridesmaid's dresses, the bouquets and the napkins our venue offered. Even most of our decor didn't include our wedding colors.

So, I kinda decided that I don't like coordinating a bunch of colors. I (apparently) find it forced. So I've been making sure things go together, and look good. But am 100% avoiding pushing "my colors" onto everything, and am letting things be mostly natural. I think that having a nice forest-y look on your stationary is will look great, especially since it's in the forest. I love that. And I wouldn't worry about the colors. Honestly, it's over done.

That totally works for a forest vibe! We're doing deep teal, mulberry, and silver as our colors, but I've told plenty of people our colors are jewel tones, and the floral motif on our save the dates includes blush. If anyone wants to walk around comparing our save the dates/ invitations to what everything's actual colors are on our wedding day, they have bigger issues than my ability to color-coordinate lol

I like your color scheme. You should go with it. It's you and your partner's wedding day and I think if you have favorite colors you want to incorporate that makes you and your partner happy then go for it. It doesn't necessarily have to go with a specific season. I also like a color coordinating scheme too but if you don't like it then don't do it. I am doing bright yellow and plum purple for our colors, and it looks gorgeous.