Discussions by Monica

I have seen a few posts on here in the past of how parents promised to pay for half or to write a check and never did and it got tense between families. Well FMIL promised us a check, which mostly...

I've always heard the phrase "it's better to ask forgiveness than permission" and is it bad that I'm starting to apply it to my wedding? When we first started looking at venues FMIL made notes about...

So I just got my eng pics back last night and it's vista prints last day of the 60% off sale. I'm having such a hard time deciding what I want So 2 questions 1. Is it better to have a couple pictures...

Thinking 30$ or less if possible. Just to be considerate to my girls. I was thinking like shiny nude flats (like shiny as in a glossy material of heels not like sparkly are anything) Or...

What did you all do about dramatic family member invites? Our guest list is set at 200 right now, there's probably 10 friends I would rather invite than some family but I'm also okay with where it's...

I had my initiations all set to order last week, but then I was reminded that I should probably put something on my invites about our park entrance being provided (usually it's a park that you have to...

So a few of my friends spent an hour alone on family photos after their wedding and another hour on portraits and it's making me nervous. My photographer told me she only needed 30 mins for 20-25...

I don't normally get manicures and when I do it's just a colored polish. I like my nails short and trim them every week so I definitely can't do long acrylics, but I'm wondering what you all did?...

I just found out that for the wedding I'm a BM in Saturday, they expect us to be there to get ready at 11am and won't be feeding us until Dinner at 6PM, I'm gonna be so hangry! Let this be a reminder...

FSIL is 19 but acts like she's 12 and is easily angered by the slightest things and holds her anger for days. I think I've only seen her in a good mood once in 3 years of dating my FH. She isn't...

I was always under the impression they were on Thursday because most venues have weddings on Friday, but a few of my BMs were kind of like "Thursday, really?". My wedding is on a Saturday and the...

We are going to Aruba for our honeymoon and I already know I want to do horseback riding, an ATV tour, a massage on the beach somewhere, and a snorkeling tour. Our honeymoon isn't until June 2018, so...

Okay, so opinions on this one.... My uncle got remarried about 10 years ago and had 2 kids with his new wife and I see them and their 2 "new" kids almost every week. he also had 2 sons before his...

I'm not one to register for fancy china because I know I will only use it twice, but I do love quality and stack ability. Any suggestions on brands for casual dining sets and also silverware that are...

I know etiquette says you're supposed to give based of relationship, not of your estimated cost of meal, but how do you personally decide how much to give for: -family you're not close with? -weddings...

Random, but would you rather do a suction cup bra or have cups sown in to dress? Most of you saw one of my dress post last week and I called the bridal salon manager and nicely asked the owner for...