Discussions by Michelle

Are you saving your top tier in the freezer even though modem bakers don’t recommend it? Or are you serving it to guests at the reception or taking it with you to the hotel as a midnight snack?

Which did you choose and what led to that decision? Did your choices of what you plan to serve determine that for you? If budget is an issue, the first place to look for food is local restaurants...

Are you doing fresh or silk? Monochrome or multi colors? Doing fillers of any kind or just flowers? Share the inspiration pictures from Pinterest, Instagram, other weddings and so on that you want...

What makes you enjoy a dj and what are your pet peeves that are non negotiable hard passes? For example, we love how they read the crowd and switch up to whatever the crowd responds to that you can’t...

Proper etiquette for those who still follow it say that it is impolite to mention dress code on the invitation (and websites which not all couples make) because guests are considered to be adults...

Whether as a former bride or a guest attending someone else’s wedding. If it did run late, how long after being seated did you (or the other bride) walk down the aisle?

I was reading this on another website and it made absolutely no sense. If you have a concern why would you keep quiet and not ask the bride? Getting in touch on the wedding day to hash out problems is...

What are you asking them to cover financially and what are your expectations of them that are made clear when you ask if they want to participate? Are they responsible to pay for just the dress, or...

A chicken tenders and fries meal from the caterer for example with unlimited soda. What is the price comparison of what you are being charged for kids vs adults? Steak and alcohol for adults is...

Who are your vendors? Do you have a venue booked yet or still looking?

The statement “being a bridesmaid is incredibly expensive” is commonly said but that doesn’t apply to every single bridesmaid, does it? Compared to the basic costs of being a guest, how does being a...

I was reading through the forums on Reddit wedding planning..various topics. One of the threads said that nearly all the brides there who had a micro wedding or small guest count under 50 said they...

Either they are not your style or something you want that is out of your budget?

Is there anything you have seen or read about online, whether it’s the forum here or elsewhere that appears to common but is not a thing that you have actually seen in person? For example, in our...

Out of curiosity, I have heard the term used as a "rule" for the value of a gift. How exactly would that work (not planning to implement but just understand) when the couple is not giving guests a...

For those who are planning to have or did have a wedding video, what elements did you make sure to include? In addition to the main video and social media highlights. Did you have the videographer...

What information have you come across in planning that either surprised you or that you wish that your family/friends knew?

Most dresses have trains unless they are custom made without one. Following the ceremony they are nearly always bustled so that you and guests do not trip over it. There are also the wrist loops but...

What colors and other elements led you toward what you and fiancé ultimately chose? Are you doing vibrant spring colors in a local outdoor setting? Or moody colors in a warehouse?

There’s alot of debate on how these are classified and whether either of them should be invited. Some people consider everyone a plus one without any distinction as a significant other, some see them...