Discussions by Michelle

How are you separating them, if at all? Are they in the same room Golden Globes style or are guests ushered to another area for tear down, or does the venue have different areas to utilize? Are you...

What did you feel was money and time well spent at your wedding that you splurged on? What do you regret spending money and time on?

Assuming that you are ordering a good tasting cake/dessert and not something that is from an incompetent bakery or is all around bad. Compared to the number of guests, did you order not enough, just...

For those who had a lone night in or out on the town the night before the wedding as was the norm in generations past, what did you do? Go out to dinner, bowling, karaoke, bar hopping, spa, etc or...

One major advantage of fresh flowers is being biodegradable and usually less expensive than faux. Plus if they are purchased from a wholesaler or grocery store, they don’t have the allergy triggers...

Old school etiquette says that save the dates are sent at 6-12 months before the wedding when the venue and date are secured and then invitations are sent at 6-8 weeks before with replies due at 4...

Because the guest list is vital to have set in stone before you can find a venue, how did you decide on who to invite? Did you decide to have adults only with no kids, a set group with kids invited or...

Across the internet, these two age groups are swept under the rug on the guest list because they’re seen as problematic and impressionable that some couples don’t want in attendance past dinner, if...

At weddings you have attended, what did you enjoy most and remember as a great time? Good food, great dj, unique entertainment or details not seen elsewhere?

What did you and your entourage wear to get hair/makeup done? Button up shirt or hoodie and sweatpants or leggings or button up pjs or something else? What did you serve to eat during that time? Door...

Of weddings you have attended, and planning your own, what has worked best for seating for the 13-20something crowd? Are they seated with parents or at their own table with each other to mix and...

Were they allowed a full break period or did they only get a handful of minutes to eat dinner and hydrate before going straight back to work due to photos, toasts, music, etc?

A friend works at a new thrift store in downtown Los Angeles that has a shipment of brand new Casablanca dresses that retails up to $5k sold for $250 without veil and $300 with...

Did you find that vendors were gatekeeping prices or were they available for public view without jumping through hoops of multiple contact attempts? Of the ones who didn’t list prices or made it...

Are you having a single full on theme or a subtle mishmash of fandoms together? Are you including soundtracks, attire, table names, something else entirely?

What are you planning to serve? Is your party lowkey casual or super fancy or somewhere in between?

What are you planning to have for cocktail hour appetizers and the main meal (dinner/lunch, whatever time you are serving)? Are you having DoorDash bring lunch by while getting hair/makeup done? Are...

What does your tentative timeline look like? Is it structured or go with the flow? Is there enough time for everything you want to do or do you have to cut something out? What events are you having...

Which do you prefer to attend as a regular guest not in the wedding party?

What stood out to you as most memorable? The guest experience, the food, the vibe? The people attending?