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Happily married 🎉

April 24, 2020

33days 8hrs


Fat arms and a strapless dress
Maggie in Wedding Attire, on August 19, 2019 at 7:36 PM

Already married ladies, and people getting married soon. How did you combat the self esteem issue of having chunky arms and a strapless dress? I have a veil that would probably cover the most...

Karla, Apr 28, 2020 16 417
Mom- Pro Bam! Pic heavy still
Maggie in Wedding Ceremony, on April 25, 2020 at 11:47 AM

Hey all! I got married last night in my backyard with my sister, her husband, and my MOH there. All other family members were in attendance through zoom. My sister officiated, and my MOH and my BIL...

Brittany, Apr 27, 2020 10 275 2
Bridesmaid rant aita
Maggie in Family and Relationships, on March 23, 2020 at 7:52 PM

Hey ladies! First of all, I’m sorry in advance for this negative post, but I need to get it off my chest and maybe get some clarity on how best to respond. TLDR: has to change my wedding date, only...

Nicole, Mar 30, 2020 38 475
Mass Elopement Hashtag!
Maggie in Community Conversations, on March 18, 2020 at 4:51 PM

I say everyone who is deciding to do a micro wedding and then a reception later on, we should all have the hashtag LoveInTheTimeOfCorona as the ceremony hashtag and then our regular hashtags for the...

Heather, Mar 18, 2020 3 93
Attire for ceremony
Maggie in Wedding Attire, on March 17, 2020 at 2:39 PM

Hey all, so as some of you probably are also doing, we are postponing our reception, we plan on still getting married on our date 4.26 and I want to still wear my dress for the wedding ceremony, what...

Maggie, Mar 17, 2020 3 82
How to be addressed
Maggie in Wedding Ceremony, on March 9, 2020 at 12:26 AM

Question, my real name is Margaret but I go by Maggie. All the invitations are using Margaret just for formal reasons. Should my officiant address me as Margaret as well or can he say Maggie?

Danielle, Mar 9, 2020 6 105
8 weeks to go and Stuck in Bed
Maggie in Planning, on March 2, 2020 at 12:11 PM

Hey all, I just need to rant a little. My wedding is in 55 days (8 weeks yesterday) and I’m having some stressful moments like my flower order isn’t on my account with the florist and they haven’t...

Clíodhna, Mar 4, 2020 4 149
How much to tip?
Maggie in Etiquette and Advice, on February 22, 2020 at 12:13 AM

Hey ladies, in need of some help: I pick up my dress from alterations tomorrow. I had gotten three layers of tulle and one layer of lace hemmed, three point over bustle, and cups added for...

Emily, Feb 25, 2020 4 118
77 days, what am i missing?
Maggie in Planning, on February 8, 2020 at 9:36 PM

So I am getting married in April, so far I’ve done all of these things, what else am I missing? Picked out: food, cake, linens, decor pieces, music playlists, wedding party gifts, day of outfits, hair...

, Feb 10, 2020 9 118
Bridal shower ideas in Hudson Valley
Maggie in New York Planning, on July 17, 2019 at 11:51 PM

Hey there! My mom and FMIL are arguing over where to have my bridal shower. My friends, FH’s family, and I live in Dutchess County whereas my family all live in Bergen County NJ. To appease both sides...

Jennifer, Feb 8, 2020 3 90
Show me Yours! (hmu)
Maggie in Hair and Makeup, on February 6, 2020 at 10:40 PM

Hey all! I just did my HMU trial for my wedding in April. The curls didn’t want to stay in my freaking hair, but that’s what a trial is for! Unfortunately I think I’m going to have to go with a...

Kimberly, Feb 8, 2020 6 182
Backlash for decisions
Maggie in Planning, on January 22, 2020 at 8:00 AM

I’m getting backlash for getting guests Uber gift cards rather than arranging transportation and for having HMU be optional but with the bridesmaids paying if they want to get it done. What are some...

Rachel, Jan 23, 2020 20 281 1
What do i wear?!?
Maggie in Wedding Attire, on January 18, 2020 at 9:29 PM

My MOH is planning my bachelorette party but I only know the state and the date: nj mid March this year. I showed her a few cute dresses and she said 1. No white 2. No dresses. Think cute comfy...

Jeanie, Jan 19, 2020 9 124
Ceremony timing?
Maggie in Wedding Ceremony, on January 15, 2020 at 4:23 AM

Hey all, any post-brides or officiants on here, I need some help! My officiant is a friend of ours from college, he hasn’t actually officiated any weddings yet (maybe one at most but I don’t think...

Veronica, Jan 15, 2020 1 89
What would you call this theme? (pics incl)
Maggie in Style and Décor, on January 5, 2020 at 12:00 AM

Hey all! My Fh and I are getting married in April. My girls are in DB Apple red dresses and the grooms women (2 of them) in Azazie sleet gray and the frommstem in similar gray. However our venue has...

Clíodhna, Jan 15, 2020 3 83
Wedding jewelry!
Maggie in Wedding Attire, on January 13, 2020 at 2:37 PM

Okay ladies! I’m in need of help with finding a necklace (I can’t wear earrings). What are you all wearing for you wedding day and where did you get it?

Melle, Jan 14, 2020 6 62
To b or Not To b
Maggie in Planning, on January 6, 2020 at 12:54 AM

About my B listers! My FH and I planned on doing an A list and a B lost for invitations as our budget couldn’t hold as many as we would have liked. Some B listers have moved to the B lost as some A...

MOB So Cal, Jan 6, 2020 3 97
To Invite Or Not Invite
Maggie in Etiquette and Advice, on December 29, 2019 at 9:03 PM

So, I have a specific group of friends from college. There’s 4 of them altogether. One is a bridesmaid of mine and 2 I love to death but they live far but they’re obviously invited. However, the 4th,...

Theadra, Dec 30, 2019 5 113
Late April 2020 Weddings
Maggie in Planning, on December 28, 2019 at 8:52 PM

Hey ladies (and gents out there)! My wedding is April 26th, 2020. Anyone else near that date? What is left on your to do lists? How are your nerves feeling? My to do list: Send out invitations Book...

Christine, Dec 29, 2019 10 106
Hair decisions
Maggie in Hair and Makeup, on December 13, 2019 at 8:58 PM

So, I picked out my hair style And I asked all of my girls to put in their ideas for what they want to do for their hair day of and.... this is what they ALL want: Is this different enough for...

anna, Dec 18, 2019 12 280