Hey ladies! First of all, I’m sorry in advance for this negative post, but I need to get it off my chest and maybe get some clarity on how best to respond.
TLDR: has to change my wedding date, only one date that fits every vendors’ schedule. New date is on bridesmaid’s bach party. I was the only one in our friend group not to be invited. Now she wants me to change my date again “or else we all won’t make it” AITA for thinking this is a garbage move on her part and wanting to replace her/ cut her out of my bridesmaid party and friend circle?
Real rant: I have been planning my wedding since Feb ‘19, in 24 hours my bridal shower, bach party, and wedding all got postponed until further notice. I had 8 days to change Everything or else my DJ and florist may not be able to be a provider (mind you already paid in full for florist and 50% of the DJ). Fiancé and I do NOT want a fall or winter wedding, and the only date everyone had available that his parents could attend was 8.23.20 which is literally 5 months from today. Perfect. Contacted all of the vendors, my family, his family, and then bridal party. My one bridesmaid then responded to me “is that the official date? No other dates were available”. I explained how, no, not for all of our vendors. She then goes to tell me how everyone in our friend group will be at her bachelorette that weekend and how “we won’t be able to come” if I keep my date. She asked me if I can just get a new DJ and change my date, again. She didn’t even mention trying to change her bach weekend.
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