Discussions by Lysandra

I've been stressing out trying to figure out how much of everything I should get. I'm expecting around 200 guests. I'm thinking for wine I'd like to have Moscato, chardonnay, rose, and cabernet...

I don't have very many wine drinkers on my guest list. And the only wine drinkers are perfectly fine with drinking the cheaper brands. I'm actually pretty positive most of them just prefer beer but...

Well I'm about 10 days out and I just tried on my dress. Got it all the way up and it was so tight I felt like I couldn't breathe and the zipper wouldn't go all the way up. I've been so stressed out...

We're buying all of the beer for our wedding ourselves. Pretty much everybody we know is fine with bud light but I'd like to add one or two more options. What other kinds of beer should we add? I...

My dj asked for a must play list for the reception. I want to keep everyone dancing all night! What are your must play songs to dance to?

We are having cocktail hour pretty much in the same area as dinner and the rest of the reception. We are doing a first look (mainly because our venue is so open it would be super awkward that all of...

I'm completely lost on what to get my girls as their bridesmaids gift. Hair and makeup is optional but they all chose to pay to get their hair done. Would it be a lame gift if I just paid for it? I...

I would love to offer hot chocolate and warm apple cider at my reception but my caterer doesn't offer that. I hired an extra bartender to take care of all of the non alcoholic drinks but I honestly...

I have a couple of guests who won't give me a straight answer on whether they're coming or not. The first one is an old friend who I would love to be there. She is saying that she could say yes right...

I'm down to a little over a month and have no idea what to do about music. I have to pick a song for 1. The seating of the parents 2. Entrance of the groomsmen 3. Entrance of the bridesmaids 4....

I'm providing beer, wine, 2 signature drinks, and sangria. I just had a guest ask me if it's going to be open bar. I told him what all we're having and his response was a long pause then ".. I'll just...

I have absolutely no idea what music to play for our ceremony. FH and I are not at all the mushy type, I'm not really into love songs and I'm not looking to make anybody cry during the ceremony (my...

Our ceremony is at 3:30 but my bridesmaids, my mom, and a few others will be at the venue probably by 7 or 8 am. I'm going to provide breakfast and lunch but all I know that I'm definitely going to...

I apologize if this has been asked a million times but I'm on mobile and can't search. I'm expecting probably 180 people. We are doing beer, wine, 2 signature drinks, lemonade, water, iced tea, hot...

This is probably a really dumb question but do I count babies in the head count? Like idk if I need to get a whole meal for them and chairs and place settings and everything. Since I wouldn't know...

We are having a buffet. My caterer only supplies disposables. I feel like tables look so much nicer with the China and everything at the place settings but since we are using disposables that will be...

I apologize if this gets asked a lot. My ceremony is at 3:30. Am I supposed to put 3:30 on the invitation or do you put a little bit earlier time to make sure everybody is seated by 3:30?

I have a 12 year old brother that I would like to somehow include in my wedding. Our first thought was to make him a junior groomsman but I'm a little crazy about having an even number so I would...