Discussions by Gabby

Has anyone hired a videographer for just 3 or 4 hours but also done a first look? I would love for them to capture our first look but I don't know if it works out logistically. I want almost all pics...

So for those of you that had more elaborate invitation suites or did diy, what types of things did you include to elevate the invitations? I have thought about doing a wax seal on the envelope. Should...

Has anyone used Zola for their invites? I'm trying to figure out how to add our rsvp qr code to the details card but I'm not having any luck.

Does anyone have any unique wedding sign ideas? I loved the acrylic signs a couple years ago, but at this point it's overdone and included in every single wedding. I am purposely trying to make my...

I'm curious to know how people have done a desert table divided up servings. Did you get enough for each person to have one of each thing or did you get a little of each thing? How much did you budget...

I've looked online some, but I would love to hear your favorite non religious readings for a ceremony! Maybe something from a book or a famous speech or anything else. Just something faaaaaaar from...

Are you supposed to send out invitations for the rehearsal dinner? And do you decorate? We pretty much have free unlimited access to our venue because my fiance works at the church so we are having...

I will most likely be getting a black dress for my wedding. Our colors are black, burgundy, and gold. I don't want to explicitly tell everyone I'm wearing a black dress. On my website could I...

So I always thought I'd wear a white dress but I saw a black dress on cocomelody that made me tear up. Does anyone know of any places to try on black plus size dresses? Or any other places that sell...

Do all the groomsmen and groom have to have the exact same suit? I want them all black and the same style, but is it okay if they buy different brands. Macy's is having a huge sale and we want to go...

So how do I form a bridal party when I don't really have any friends? Between the pandemic and graduating college in April I no longer have any close friends. The only people i talk to are people I...

So I have good news and I don't want to bore everyone I know with constant wedding talk! I've been looking for a decorator for a while and I finally booked the perfect person. They had a package where...

One thing I really want to dress up my reception is ceiling draping. Has anyone done this on their own before or bought it from somewhere and had someone install it? Any links to places to buy what I...

Is Thumbtack legit? I was quoted $160 for 4 hrs of bartending service and I provide the stuff they need. I know this is a steal. Just making sure it's legit before I commit. I plan on meeting...

Has anyone decorated a kind of ugly social hall to be pretty nice? I'm just looking for some real life inspiration and ideas. I'm just wondering how you elevate a kind of ugly space. Thankfully the...

So we had originally planned to use my FH's church as a venue. It's very old and beautiful. He'd like to get married there if possible, but we're not religious so it's not a deal breaker. For the...

Is anyone just getting lots of backlash and people trying to shame you for planning a wedding? I'm hopeful that we'll be able to have a 50 person wedding in late October, but people are just ruthless....

I've tried the hashtag generators and they haven't been much help. I'd love a witty or punny hashtag. My last name is Jones and his is McCollum.

So we will be having the ceremony and reception at my FH's church. The ceremony will be in the sanctuary. I will do a little decorating there to make it look nice. I will do a lot of decorating to the...