Discussions by Dizzy

So we had a lot of (my) friends not come to our wedding- these are late cancels I'm talking about in the 2 weeks to 1 day prior range. Range of excuses (some of which were legit others not, I think...

We got some good deals for the wedding bc of barters/last minute hiring. Definitely want to tip. Want to know how much to tip- all of this will be cash. Philly/NJ area Cake- normal price $456 +...

Back into planning our wedding after more days of frustration! lol. T-24 I'm making some signs for our food and drink and I'm second guessing myself, trying not to be a snob but also explain a little...

Our wedding is in 24 days! My work is super busy leading up to the big day, plus fiance about to start a new job- thinking to plan ahead. We are DIY everything so there is a lot we need to do week of....

So yesterday our photographer emails me and says she has a family emergency and has to move out of state, she is cancelling all up and coming gigs. This super sucks for her but also sad for us. She...

We invited 125 guests to our wedding 10/23. I set the RSVP for 9/15. Over half of the guests have not replied as of today 9/9 (have a few days still). The invites and RSVPS are all electronic. It's a...

So a music group I'm in is playing our wedding. We've been together 15 years, friends of varying levels, it really does function like a (often dysfunctional) family. Not a ton of weddings in our...

Hey all! So we are DIYing everything for our wedding. I bought some cups off of Amazon while my brain was super fuzzed out. I had searched for recyclable cups and these are NOT going to be recyclable-...

We are having our favorite Mediterranean and Middle Eastern foods for our wedding. Not really our cultural background by blood but that's how we're rolling. Our friend group and some of family is...

We are older and don't need the sort of things one would put in a registry. Straight up asking for cash on a website feels a little rude...I've gone to a few weddings where there was a honeyfund and...

I am not sure what I want to do here. Acquired 20+ fairy lights, this gold leaf ribbon (thin wire with little ribbon leaves coming off it), a bunch of tall decent sized vases, and smaller ~3-4 inch...

I need help figuring out our schedule day of! We are doing the ceremony outside in one place just family (bc self-uniting, and fiance wants that part smaller. 10-15 people?) and then the reception...

Trying to figure out the menu. We have a good deal of vegan/GF/DF/nut allergy folks in the mix. We will have a big appetizer spread before (charcuterie boards and dips) Right now I'm set on a chicken...

We could not find anywhere to do our reception at that we could afford in the state we wanted to marry in- PA, during the dates we have available/within hour and a half or so of our home in South...

We are still planning our outdoors 2021 wedding and one concern is food. Still heavily leaning towards DIY for that- it’s casual and everyone is into bbq-type party vibes (not actual BBQ tho...

So we may be going in a totally different direction with our wedding. Our original venue is getting weird with us and nickel/dime-ing. HUGE bummer. But I remembered another place I've done weddings...

We are zooming in on our venue- *thought* we would do it outside at a friends' place, but now fiance is looking for other options so we can really make an informed decision. Rain could be a pain, true...

So we are super lucky to have inherited some jewelry. My fiance proposed to me with a VERY nice ring his mom gave him. He said she has a shopping "hobby", apparently had the diamonds from something...

We are finally officially doin it (we were committed, but unsure if we were going to have a legal ceremony or not- we finally figured out we wanted to do the legal route and get officially married). I...

Hey, So it's going to be like, IDEK how long until a wedding is possible. No groups >25 until early next year at least where I live. Even though it would be outside: yeah, no. I have friends across...