Discussions by Cathy

So, I've been married since October; my husband has two college-age sons from his previous marriage--we will not having children together for biological reasons. My question: should I give him a...

I just can’t get into it. I’ve tried, but the entire concept of putting his member into my mouth turns me off. All other intimacy is fine, but he and I can’t get past this. help?

Some of the cards we received are really beautiful (like the high end ones that are hand made). Hubs was saying "just dump them." I've been scanning them and I plan to put them into a photobook that...

This question is specifically for people whose culture has them living at home until they get married: have you ever felt a bit lonely or displaced after your marriage? My husband and I work different...

My husband and I really want to go to Tahiti for our honeymoon, we were thinking in December or January. I would like to have the 'honeymoon experience' (full pampering at a resort, romantic dinners...

One of our guests gave us a beautiful handmade sampler with our name on it. The problem is, they got the wedding date wrong, we want to display this, but how is the best way to do so? Every time we...

Ugh. So, I've been married for a week, and was doing laundry. I put a load of light clothes in and made sure to do it on the delicate cycle because my husband had his nice shirts in there. Well, there...

Out of curiosity, how long do people have to send gifts or cards to the newly married couple? Is it still the one year?

Please tell me it is normal to feel like you want to puke the morning of your wedding. I was fine last. Ugh the, but now I feel sick to my stomach. No, I’m not pregnant.

Ugh, I just want this over with! So, the reception venue finally gave us the final cost, which was way more than we expected. I tell my FH this, and then he starts yelling at me, as if I have any...

Do you put the bride and groom’s names on the seating chart if the chart already has their names at the top?

How do you go about doing it tastefully? I got 2 of the same gifts, and I already sent thank you cards. One came from Amazon, the other was from a store. No gift receipt came with the store one. I’ll...

Maybe it’s pre wedding jitters, but I’m just really bummed that none of *my* friends could come to my wedding. All the friends attending are in Fh’s side. I have a very small circle of friends, and...

Honestly, hair and make up is the furthest thing from my mind right now, but everyone keeps telling me I “have to look like a bride/“ I had my hair and make up done as a bridesmaid for my friends...

My parents have a bunch of friends who didn’t make the guest list cut, partly because I am not close to these people. Should we send wedding announcements, or not? FH says “no.” I have no clue.

What are you supposed to wear for the rehearsal dinner? We are having a semi formal sit down dinner at a steak house. Pinterest shows me nothing but white dresses, of which I don’t own any. I was...

I was thinking of dying mine a light blue color. I realize that the lace overlay will likely dye a different shade than the rest, but I still want to do it, partly because I want my money’s worth out...

Semi rant time. My shower wound up getting canceled because no one could come (no one wanted to drive 70 miles to the hostess’ place), and the bachelorette party was canceled too because no one could...

Am I missing something? I want to post photos from my phone to the WW site, but the only option is to post a video,

This may sound weird, and I don't know if this is even a "thing," but I wanted to ask. We had a custom cake topper made for our cake, and would like to have it returned after the cake is served. I...