The Vow Whisperer is a licensed officiant, wedding vow, toast, and speech coach based in New York. Owned and run by Tanya Pushkine, The Vow Whisperer helps couples craft the perfect words and coaches each person to deliver their vows flawlessly for the most important performance of a lifetime. The process is comfortable and relaxed and together, the most beautiful customized ceremony will come to life, just as you dreamed it would. To see press, visit the website.
Tanya’s experience as a Juilliard-trained actress, as well as her background in public speaking, makes her an ideal choice as an officiant and as someone to assist with writing vows (in your own words). Tanya helps couples confidently and openly express their thoughts and feelings to their partner on their special day.
With Tanya, couples put pen to paper by extracting memories, anecdotes, the meaning of marriage, their joys and hurdles, their promises, and much more. Crafting elegant prose and heartfelt words, the script allows you to outline your sentiments in a beautiful, touching and unforgettable way.
The Vow Whisperer also coaches you with speaking, enunciating, projection, body language, and more. She can help calm your nerves and allow you to be the best possible version of yourself as you read aloud in front of your guests. Your fear of speaking in public will quickly dissipate.
As an officiant, Tanya is a personable, approachable and kind person who strives to create the most magical experience possible.
The Vow Whisperer also provides her services for couples’ last-minute nerves by providing guidance, confidence, and support. Tanya can assist with wedding speeches and toasts, and her services can be provided face-to-face or virtually.The Vow Whisperer also travels for destination weddings.
16 Reviews for The Vow Whisperer
Recommended by 100% of couples
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Matthew Schechter · Married on 09/07/2019
Working with Tanya was very helpful and would highly recommend to people writing vows.
Tanya was amazing. We were working from Different states and it came together perfect. Tanya helped give me and my wife the confidence we needed to get up there In front of all those people and share our vows. 10/10.Sent on 09/10/2019
The Vow Whisperer's reply:Thanks so much, Matt. We did it even though we were many miles apart. So glad you were both stars that day!
Anat Schechter · Married on 09/07/2019
Mother of the Groom
Tanya coached my son and his bride on their vows, both of whom are not comfortable being the center of attention. She was able to get them to communicate to each other in front of 140 people as if they were the only ones in the room, with grace and ease! Miracle worker! The tenderness and love was felt by all. Their confidence and contentment after the ceremony set the tone for the rest of the evening.Sent on 10/21/2019
Tanya was amazingly dedicated and invested in the couple’s success. Highly recommended!
The Vow Whisperer's reply:Anat,
Inal and Felicia · Married on 07/11/2019
The vow whisperer, whispers miracles!
We love Tanya and it was a blessing working with her. She helped us with our wedding vows and honestly speaking, I don’t know what I personally would’ve done if it wasn’t for her. She was very patient, professional and she even came to our house to help us practice. She flew out to our wedding and we worked on the vows a few more times. On the wedding day, out vows were beautiful. We are very grateful to Tanya and her husband. I definitely recommend anyone and everyone to use her because she’s great at what she does. Thank you so much Tanya!❤️❤️❤️Sent on 07/15/2019
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