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The Vow Whisperer

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The Vow Whisperer is a licensed officiant, wedding vow, toast, and speech coach based in New York. Owned and run by Tanya Pushkine, The Vow Whisperer helps couples craft the perfect words and coaches each person to deliver their vows flawlessly for the most important performance of a lifetime. The process is comfortable and relaxed and together, the most beautiful customized ceremony will come to life, just as you dreamed it would.

Services Offered

As an officiant, Tanya is an approachable, fun, and kind person who strives to create the most magical experience possible. Tanya’s experience as a Juilliard-trained actress, as well as her background in public speaking, makes her an ideal choice as an officiant and as someone to assist with writing vows (in your own words). Tanya helps couples confidently and openly express their thoughts and feelings to their partner on their special day.

With Tanya, couples put pen to paper by extracting memories, anecdotes, the meaning of marriage, their joys and hurdles, their promises, and much more. Crafting elegant prose and heartfelt words, the script allows each one to outline their sentiments in a touching and unforgettable way.

The Vow Whisperer also coaches couples on speaking, enunciation, projection, body language, and more. She can help calm your nerves and allow you to be the best possible version of yourself as you read aloud in front of your guests. Your fear of speaking in public will quickly dissipate. Tanya also specializes in coaching family members and friends to officiate. She will craft the ceremony and guide this person through all the logistics to be able to run a ceremony like a pro.

Other Services

The Vow Whisperer also provides her services for couples’ last-minute nerves by providing guidance, confidence, and support up until the moment of. Tanya can assist with wedding speeches and toasts, and her services can be provided face-to-face or virtually. The Vow Whisperer also travels for destination weddings.

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Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

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Baha'i Faith
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

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    Worth every penny!

    Tanya helped to design our entire ceremony and worked with our co-officiants to create the most beautiful experience! She helped us to balance story telling, religion and traditional ceremony elements. We also worked with her to write our vows and she helped us to practice and feel confident. On our wedding day we had everyone in tears! I cannot say enough good things and all of our guests thought it was the best ceremony they'd heard/seen. My whole family loved working with her and we cannot recommend her enough!

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    I absolutely loved working with both of your officiants, who I had an incredible connection with. And you and Zach were so easy to work with. It was truly a wonderful experience for me, too!
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    Highly Recommend

    My wife and I had such a wonderful experience writing our vows with Tanya. She has a structured process that really made us think about and reconnect with all the reasons we love each other and were getting married. Looking back we are so grateful in having Tanya and this added layer of experience to our wedding. As the husband, it was important for my vows to truly express my feelings and the end result was more than I could have hoped. Many guests commented our their love for my wife and I’s vows and most importantly we loved them. Many thanks, much love!

    The Vow Whisperer's reply:

    Thank you so much for your lovely were both wonderful to work with! The love you share was a beautiful thing for me to watch.
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    Best Wedding Ceremony!!

    We're so glad we chose Tanya! I attended a friend's wedding where Tanya officiated and was blown away! I immediately knew we needed to have her at ours too. We filled out a questionnaire and were both happily surprised with the stories she told at our ceremony. Our guests were laughing and crying, so personal! Thanks Tanya!

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    What I so loved about you was how chill and calm you were that day and how that massive, radiant smile never left your face. You were really wonderful to work with!
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