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MDDC Weddings is a Frederick, Maryland-based officiant company, specializing in making your wedding day memorable and fun. Reverend Joyce Hilbery is here to help guide you through the ceremony process, whether traditional or non-traditional. Couples can choose their vows, readings, and personal messages for their ceremony, making them genuinely unique and customized. MDDC Weddings is delighted to service your special wedding day in Maryland, Northern Virginia, West Virginia, Pennsylvania, and Washington D.C.

Services Offered
Reverend Joyce Hilbery is happy to perform ceremonies for all couples, including same-sex and non-denominational. She has sample ceremony options for couples to choose from if they wish or they are welcome to customize the details. Some of her services include:

  • Vow renewals
  • Personalized ceremonies and vows
  • Proxy marriages

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Frequently asked questions

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

Reviews of MDDC weddings

Samantha
Samantha Sent on 01/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Joyce is the BEST

Joyce was absolutely the best! She was so professional and also upbeat throughout the whole process. She does all of the little things, like ensures she moves out of first kiss photos. Our venue's coordinator had some hiccups during the rehearsal and ceremony and Joyce handled them with grace. We loved having her officiate our wedding!
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Pilar Sent on 05/27/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Unique wedding experience

Joyce was professional and fun. She was very responsive and met all our expectations. I’d definitely recommend her.
Kelsey
Kelsey Sent on 03/22/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Such a Delight

Joyce was a dream to have officiate our wedding. She was on top of the rehearsal to make sure everyone knew what they were to be doing. She made sure to communicate with us the entire time before the wedding as well. She even made us a book of our ceremony as a memory. I would recommend her over and over again.
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Emily Sent on 01/19/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Joyce is a Gem

Joyce is exactly who you will want to officiate your marriage. She made us WANT to celebrate our marriage. I'm sure that sounds strange, but as we met with her to talk through our journey (which included a Covid-canceled wedding from March 2020 and the addition of a toddler to the mix!), she
articulated all the beautiful moments and symbolism that go into a ceremony. It reminded us that the wedding wasn't just a big planning item to check off on your to-do list (speaking to my fellow Type A Brides out there!), but it's a true celebration of a meaningful and beautiful life event.
Joyce came highly recommended to us from Stone Manor Country Club. We planned our small wedding in just 2 months, and we were fairly clueless about what we wanted. All we knew was that it was important for us to feel at ease with our officiant (we didn't want to be lectured or made to sit silently while someone rambled off Bible verses to us). Joyce is SO warm and welcoming, and she has a wicked sense of humor. She comes prepared with helpful materials and to-do lists (which I loved!), and everything can be tailored to your own desires.
I distinctly remember leaving our meeting with her and thinking, "Yes! This is EXACTLY who we need." After meeting her, I felt so excited about our marriage and that we were finally able to celebrate us.
She also wore the most amazing, gorgeous shoes to our ceremony :) :) :). They look wonderful in our wedding photos!
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Jessica Sent on 01/17/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Joyce helped us tie the knot, literally!

My spouse and I found Reverend Joyce Hilbery and MDDC Weddings through an online search. We were getting married near Frederick, MD but we're from the Baltimore area, and neither of us has a particular religious affiliation. We wanted a ceremony that captured our personalities, and she worked with us to create the best experience.

We first contacted Joyce through the website and she was very responsive - we set up a video call to talk a little about the date/location and what we were thinking of. We made a plan to have a meeting near Frederick - as she said, it's important for us to get to know each other a little for her to perform the service on our special day. Joyce was absolutely lovely to work with, very organized, open to ideas, with a great sense of humor, and also sensitivity to family dynamics that related to the ceremony. We got many of the details ironed out there with a plan for following up closer to the wedding.

One of the things I really appreciated working with Joyce was having a sample script available and we could mix-and-match different pieces to make the ceremony exactly what we wanted. We kept the ceremony short and sweet with a knot-tying at the end.

The day of the ceremony, she had the groom faced away for a 'reveal' moment as I came down the aisle (we didn't do first looks or see each other at all since the day before the wedding, so this was a really special moment). She came prepared with extra copies of the readings and vows for us, and kept everything moving smoothly. At the very end, she paused and moved out of the way for the first kiss photos - a move our photographer greatly appreciated.

Overall, Joyce was a pleasure to work with and I would highly recommend her to other couples. Best wishes!
Shirley
Shirley Sent on 12/07/2021
5 out of 5 rating

From the moment we first met Joyce, we knew she was the officiant for us.

From the moment we first met Joyce, we knew she was the officiant for us. She has this aura that just draws you in and keeps you waiting for her next words - not to mention those deep blue eyes and radiant smile! We were able to personalize all parts of the ceremony script using templates she provided as well as include our own readings. Our guests were moved and simultaneously entertained with Joyce's sincere voice and charismatic attitude. They shed tears of joy yet also laughed at Joyce’s sprinkles of witty remarks. One of my favorite things about her which the guests weren’t able to see was her leadership during the rehearsal. She kept everyone focused and highlighted crucial details that made the ceremony that much more special. Without Joyce, the ceremony would have just not been the same, and we highly HIGHLY recommend contacting her if you’re looking for someone to ensure the most important day of your life is perfect. Thank you so much, Joyce!
Brienna
Brienna Sent on 10/27/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Made the day complete

We looked at and interviewed a lot of officiants. We’re a non religious couple so finding someone without religious affiliations willing to do a non theist ceremony was challenging. Then we met Joyce. Upon our first meeting, we felt like she was an old friend. We knew right away she was the officiant for us! The accent certainly helped. 😅 Joyce was professional and responsive during the planning process and a lifesaver during the rehearsal! Not only did we have no idea what we were doing (hey, who does. We’re all new at this, right?!) we also had some rogue groomsmen. Joyce whipped them into shape and helped us execute a beautiful plan. She really took charge and made it fun! Obviously nerves got the best of some of us on wedding day but Joyce was there with her cues, calmness and professionalism to help us out. She performed a beautiful ceremony that was perfect for us. We included readings and read our own vows. Several guests commented on how wonderful Joyce was. In my opinion, you should save yourself time and just hire Joyce as your officiant!
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Hilary Sent on 09/29/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Joyce was delightful !!! She made our wedding party comfortable at the rehearsals injected some humor

Joyce was delightful !!! Sweet, funny, and professional.
Cindy
Cindy Sent on 08/12/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Simply the best!

Joyce was an incredible officiant. What made us book her on the spot was her winning personality and awesome sense of humor. On a day full of nerves, it was important to have someone we both felt comfortable with.

On top of being a joy to work with, she was also extremely flexible, patient, and understanding. We had to reschedule our wedding twice. The first time was due to Covid. We decided to have a minimony prior to our rescheduled “wedding” date because of the ailing health of a family member. Joyce was extremely compassionate and didn’t flinch at the idea of changing plans, yet again.

I could go on and on but the point is, call Joyce, you won’t be disappointed. You’ll be able to tell from the first conversation that she’s the one you want!
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Julie Sent on 06/15/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Joyce was AMAZING! She delivered exactly what we wanted!

Joyce is great she really listens to what you want and delivers. It was a fun stress free ceremony. It was prefect!
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Rose Gold Events & Styling Rose Gold Events & Styling Wedding Planners

Joyce is my absolutely favorite Officiant! She will make your ceremony personalized and meaningful and she is an absolute professional. She will also put you at ease to relieve any wedding jitters! Joyce is an absolute pleasure to work with and you will love her Scottish accent!

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