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    Joyce is the BEST

    Joyce was absolutely the best! She was so professional and also upbeat throughout the whole process. She does all of the little things, like ensures she moves out of first kiss photos. Our venue's coordinator had some hiccups during the rehearsal and ceremony and Joyce handled them with grace. We loved having her officiate our wedding!
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    Pilar Sent on 05/27/2022
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    Unique wedding experience

    Joyce was professional and fun. She was very responsive and met all our expectations. I’d definitely recommend her.
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    Such a Delight

    Joyce was a dream to have officiate our wedding. She was on top of the rehearsal to make sure everyone knew what they were to be doing. She made sure to communicate with us the entire time before the wedding as well. She even made us a book of our ceremony as a memory. I would recommend her over and over again.
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    Emily Sent on 01/19/2022
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    Joyce is a Gem

    Joyce is exactly who you will want to officiate your marriage. She made us WANT to celebrate our marriage. I'm sure that sounds strange, but as we met with her to talk through our journey (which included a Covid-canceled wedding from March 2020 and the addition of a toddler to the mix!), she
    articulated all the beautiful moments and symbolism that go into a ceremony. It reminded us that the wedding wasn't just a big planning item to check off on your to-do list (speaking to my fellow Type A Brides out there!), but it's a true celebration of a meaningful and beautiful life event.
    Joyce came highly recommended to us from Stone Manor Country Club. We planned our small wedding in just 2 months, and we were fairly clueless about what we wanted. All we knew was that it was important for us to feel at ease with our officiant (we didn't want to be lectured or made to sit silently while someone rambled off Bible verses to us). Joyce is SO warm and welcoming, and she has a wicked sense of humor. She comes prepared with helpful materials and to-do lists (which I loved!), and everything can be tailored to your own desires.
    I distinctly remember leaving our meeting with her and thinking, "Yes! This is EXACTLY who we need." After meeting her, I felt so excited about our marriage and that we were finally able to celebrate us.
    She also wore the most amazing, gorgeous shoes to our ceremony :) :) :). They look wonderful in our wedding photos!
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    Jessica Sent on 01/17/2022
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    Joyce helped us tie the knot, literally!

    My spouse and I found Reverend Joyce Hilbery and MDDC Weddings through an online search. We were getting married near Frederick, MD but we're from the Baltimore area, and neither of us has a particular religious affiliation. We wanted a ceremony that captured our personalities, and she worked with us to create the best experience.

    We first contacted Joyce through the website and she was very responsive - we set up a video call to talk a little about the date/location and what we were thinking of. We made a plan to have a meeting near Frederick - as she said, it's important for us to get to know each other a little for her to perform the service on our special day. Joyce was absolutely lovely to work with, very organized, open to ideas, with a great sense of humor, and also sensitivity to family dynamics that related to the ceremony. We got many of the details ironed out there with a plan for following up closer to the wedding.

    One of the things I really appreciated working with Joyce was having a sample script available and we could mix-and-match different pieces to make the ceremony exactly what we wanted. We kept the ceremony short and sweet with a knot-tying at the end.

    The day of the ceremony, she had the groom faced away for a 'reveal' moment as I came down the aisle (we didn't do first looks or see each other at all since the day before the wedding, so this was a really special moment). She came prepared with extra copies of the readings and vows for us, and kept everything moving smoothly. At the very end, she paused and moved out of the way for the first kiss photos - a move our photographer greatly appreciated.

    Overall, Joyce was a pleasure to work with and I would highly recommend her to other couples. Best wishes!
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    Shirley Sent on 12/07/2021
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    From the moment we first met Joyce, we knew she was the officiant for us.

    From the moment we first met Joyce, we knew she was the officiant for us. She has this aura that just draws you in and keeps you waiting for her next words - not to mention those deep blue eyes and radiant smile! We were able to personalize all parts of the ceremony script using templates she provided as well as include our own readings. Our guests were moved and simultaneously entertained with Joyce's sincere voice and charismatic attitude. They shed tears of joy yet also laughed at Joyce’s sprinkles of witty remarks. One of my favorite things about her which the guests weren’t able to see was her leadership during the rehearsal. She kept everyone focused and highlighted crucial details that made the ceremony that much more special. Without Joyce, the ceremony would have just not been the same, and we highly HIGHLY recommend contacting her if you’re looking for someone to ensure the most important day of your life is perfect. Thank you so much, Joyce!
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    Made the day complete

    We looked at and interviewed a lot of officiants. We’re a non religious couple so finding someone without religious affiliations willing to do a non theist ceremony was challenging. Then we met Joyce. Upon our first meeting, we felt like she was an old friend. We knew right away she was the officiant for us! The accent certainly helped. 😅 Joyce was professional and responsive during the planning process and a lifesaver during the rehearsal! Not only did we have no idea what we were doing (hey, who does. We’re all new at this, right?!) we also had some rogue groomsmen. Joyce whipped them into shape and helped us execute a beautiful plan. She really took charge and made it fun! Obviously nerves got the best of some of us on wedding day but Joyce was there with her cues, calmness and professionalism to help us out. She performed a beautiful ceremony that was perfect for us. We included readings and read our own vows. Several guests commented on how wonderful Joyce was. In my opinion, you should save yourself time and just hire Joyce as your officiant!
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    Hilary Sent on 09/29/2021
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    Joyce was delightful !!! She made our wedding party comfortable at the rehearsals injected some humor

    Joyce was delightful !!! Sweet, funny, and professional.
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    Cindy Sent on 08/12/2021
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    Simply the best!

    Joyce was an incredible officiant. What made us book her on the spot was her winning personality and awesome sense of humor. On a day full of nerves, it was important to have someone we both felt comfortable with.

    On top of being a joy to work with, she was also extremely flexible, patient, and understanding. We had to reschedule our wedding twice. The first time was due to Covid. We decided to have a minimony prior to our rescheduled “wedding” date because of the ailing health of a family member. Joyce was extremely compassionate and didn’t flinch at the idea of changing plans, yet again.

    I could go on and on but the point is, call Joyce, you won’t be disappointed. You’ll be able to tell from the first conversation that she’s the one you want!
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    Julie Sent on 06/15/2021
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    Joyce was AMAZING! She delivered exactly what we wanted!

    Joyce is great she really listens to what you want and delivers. It was a fun stress free ceremony. It was prefect!
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    Ally Sent on 06/09/2021
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    Joyce is AWESOME, hire her!

    Joyce was awesome to work with! She was super helpful in putting together the final ceremony and making recommendations along the way. She was pivotal during our rehearsal to really set up the plan and let everyone know their parts. During the reception, everyone kept telling me how much they loved Joyce and thought she was great. She was able to add in humor during the ceremony which was perfect for us. Overall, would absolutely recommend Joyce!
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    Liz M. Sent on 01/25/2021
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    Lovely woman who is amazing at her job!

    Joyce was amazing! So sweet, honest, and easy to work with! She brought a levity to the day that was very special. She makes it so easy to personalize everything about your ceremony, and even provides templates to help get you started. We really didn’t know what we wanted in a ceremony, only what we didn’t want. She helped us pull together a ceremony that fit us perfectly. She was a wonderful and memorable addition to our wedding. Post ceremony she even provided us a nice printed copy of the whole ceremony and vows in addition to our wedding certificate.
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    Highly recommend!!

    Joyce is so amazing at what she does! From the first day we met her, we knew we had to hire her! She walked us through everything and made the process extremely easy. On our wedding day, she had us all laughing the whole time. It was a great experience!!
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    Joyce is the BEST

    Joyce was great. She was friendly, personable, and organized. Joyce was patient and walked us through everything from the structure of our ceremony on paper to physically walking everyone through at rehearsal. Her sense of humor is, of course, our favorite, right next to her accent. Love, love, love her
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    All that we could hope for in an officiant.

    Joyce was amazing from the start. She made my wife and I feel special from the beginning. On our big day Joyce kept us calm with her humor and also with her kindness. She really made a big impression on our guests too. I would go out of my way to recommend Joyce to anyone getting married!
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    Perfectly happy and easy

    Joyce did a fabulous job, instilled humor and wit. Lot of options to select from regarding the readings for the ceremony and she provides you a package of this as a keepsake.
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    Anthony Sent on 09/29/2020
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    Amazing to work with!

    Joyce was amazing to work with! When we were meeting with potential officiants Joyce really stood out to us and made us feel very comfortable. She was very communicative leading up to the wedding. During the ceremony she kept everything on track and made us very relaxed with some humor along the way. Our families loved Joyce as well. We highly recommend her!
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    Thoughtful guidance and attentive care

    Working with Joyce was a delight! She helped us create a meaningful, touching, non-religious ceremony. As our date approached, she emailed us with reminders and tips to make sure our ceremony flowed and everything was in order. I loved working with her, and my family attending the ceremony complimented her work.
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    Wow. What an absolute delight!

    Joyce was absolute perfection at our wedding - don’t even think twice about having her officiate. We got so many compliments about Joyce from guests and other vendors after the ceremony - the readings and ceremony were beautiful PLUS she’s absolutely hilarious and brought some levity and laughter. From our first few minutes of sitting done with her at the first meeting we already knew we we were going to hire her. She makes the entire process EASY but also customizable (which all brides know the less stressful the better) and offered up some amazing ideas. We told her we didn’t want to write our own vows and she instead suggested that we do a wine box ceremony where we write a letter to each other and close them up with a box of wine which we ended up doing as part of our ceremony. It was such an amazing idea and, again, we had over ten people come up to us afterwards and tell us they loved the wine box idea and had never seen it before. She made our entire wedding party laugh moments before walking down the aisle which calmed our nerves and then again afterwards had us all rolling. If I had to envision the “perfect” officiant it would be Joyce - beautiful voice, great presence, a calming and joyful force on our wedding day, and effortlessly throws in touches of humor which made all the guests laugh. Trust me - she’s it.
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    Will Sent on 11/04/2019
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    Great Officiant

    We were very happy to have Joyce as our officiant. Our ceremony was very different than the “standard” and Joyce was great about being flexible and making the day just the way we wanted. She was punctual, funny, and offered good advice to ensure the ceremony went off without a hitch.
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    Vanessa Sent on 09/30/2019
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    Best choice you could possibly make.

    Joyce was THE best decision, outside of getting married, that we possibly could've made. She was extremely helpful in guiding us through the entire marriage process. She took charge of the rehearsal and helped us avoid any possible disasters. She was quick and responsive to all our questions, as well as being kind and funny by helping to break the ice the day of the wedding. She made us both extremely comfortable as we stood in front of all those people crying and pouring our hearts out. We couldn't possibly think of any other person we would want to go through this experience with than Reverend Joyce!
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    Katelyn Sent on 09/29/2019
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    Amazing! Highly recommend!

    We had a wonderful experience with Joyce. She responded within the hour when I initially contacted her and we quickly set up a meeting at a restaurant! She made a great first impression and we immediately knew we wanted her to officiate our big day! She was charming, very friendly, personable and very well spoken. She worked with us and even was able to do our wedding even though she had another one on the same day! She accommodated us both!

    Joyce really has a passion for what she does and brings something very special to the table. She knows what she is doing and keeps everything on track and flowing smoothly! We had many compliments about her from many of our guests!! Highly recommend!! Well worth the $$!
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    Jennifer Sent on 09/25/2019
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    Best choice

    Joyce is wonderful and so full of life. The best way to start off your marriage. She was always professional, but kept you nice and relaxed the day of the wedding. The ceremony was a breeze and memorable. I would recommend her highly. One of the extra bonuses besides her being a great officiant is that she was super prompt with emails. Usually she responded within a few hours and definitely within 24. As us brides know, that is a huge mental load off when you're sitting there waiting for a response. Thank you so much Joyce for making our day so special and magnificent.
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    July 2019 wedding

    Joyce was our wedding life savior! We had everything planned for the wedding except the most important person to actually wed us! We met for dinner and bam we new we were in the right hands. With only about 4 weeks until the wedding Joyce was there for us. With her years of experience she was prepared to share our special day!

    Day of the wedding she was a little piece of relief for us as we prepared to go out in front of our friends and family. Our ceremony was short and very sweet (in the middle of the summer!) we also had a bridal party of 22! Groomsmen, bridesmaids and our flower girls and ring bearers. So she made it happen!

    I’d recommend Joyce for your upcoming wedding! Ask her about her wine box ceremony!
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    Warm, Caring, Professional

    Joyce is an amazing person, and an even better officiant. She's warm, she's energetic, and she works with you! She wants your day to be YOUR DAY! She will make what you want come true and she's extremely easy to talk to. She's very punctual, very polite, and an awesome speaker. Not to mention, she has THE BEST accent!! Haha. Joyce made our ceremony wonderful, fun, beautiful, and overall she made it easy. We didn't have to worry at all, and she walked us through it the whole way without it looking like she was guiding us through it. If that makes sense? She even took care of the wedding license, and mailing out the copies needed to make it official. So all we had to do was enjoy our night!! Joyce is just an overall amazing person with a heart set for making others weddings a special day. If you want the best, pick her!
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    Marina Sent on 08/23/2019
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    A Special Day Made Even More Special

    Rev. Joyce Hilbery was our officiant for our recent wedding, and it simply would not have been the same without her. We planned our wedding from the other side of the world, and from the start she was very responsive and easy to get in touch with. She gave us lots of wonderful ideas for readings and ceremony add-ons to work with and was very receptive to our choices/preferences around wording which were important as we are a same-sex couple. She arrived promptly on the day of the ceremony, and made us all feel immediately at ease. She had great banter with the bridal party and really felt like one of the family. We appreciated her wit and sweetness during the ceremony itself, which ran smoothly and could not have gone better in all honesty. Recommend 100%.
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    Stephanie Sent on 08/15/2019
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    A Wonderful Experience!

    Joyce was a fantastic officiant. She guided us through the process and helped us feel at ease. The guests raved about her!
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    We couldn't have imagined a more perfect ceremony! Thanks Joyce!

    The second we met Joyce my husband and I knew that she would be the perfect fit for us! She was so helpful every step of the way and helped me stay organized! She also was hilarious, and all of our guests raved about how much they loved her after the ceremony. Our ceremony was beautiful and flowed perfectly. We can't thank Joyce enough for making our wedding everything we wanted and more!
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    Beautiful Service

    We got so many compliments from our guests saying they loved Joyce and said she reminded them of Grace Kelly. And everyone enjoyed the wine box ceremony. Many have never seen that before. Thank you for making our special day wonderful!
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    Desiree Sent on 05/29/2019
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    Joyce IS who you want to select!!!

    My husband and I are not overly religious people and really didn’t want the traditional style wedding. I did a general search for officiants and Joyce was close to us, so that’s who we picked. We scheduled a lunch meeting. My husband really didn’t want to come because he thought it was weird that we HAD to meet an officiant and talk about our wedding. After our meeting was finished, he couldn’t say he loved her more!! She’s the friendliest, funniest, down to earth person and really fit our personalities perfectly! She’s SO adorable and her accent is heavenly to hear! We just love her to pieces, she’s a gem❤️ You will not regret selecting her for your ceremony, trust me!!
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    Jenny Sent on 05/28/2019
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    Joyce was a perfect fit for our ceremony

    Joyce is funny, kind, organized and knows what she is doing! She gave us suggestions to make our ceremony custom to us. Everything that could go wrong at our wedding did, but Joyce kept everyone on track and never missed a beat. She even followed up the next day which was going above and beyond. We are so thankful we found Joyce!
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    Dominique Sent on 05/28/2019
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    Rev. Joyce is Wonderful!

    My Fiance and I were so lucky to find Joyce Hilbery to Officiate our Wedding. She really took the time to get to know us as people, and made sure that our rehearsal and our special day went smoothly. Most importantly, Joyce made the day FUN for my husband and I (which is no small feat, considering how stressful weddings can be). Also, she was so kind to all of our friends and family, and made them really feel like they were part of our special day. Thank you Rev. Joyce Hilbery for everything!
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    Michelle Sent on 01/26/2019
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    Professional & Knowledgeable

    Joyce was recommended to us by our venue and we both agree she was the perfect officiant for us. When one of us started to tear up during the ceremony, she helped to calm us down.

    She has a lot of wonderful experience, so her suggestions were all very helpful to us. She offered so many resources for ceremony ideas but was still happy to personalize based on what we wanted too. In addition, she handled everything with our marriage license, which meant less we had to do.

    We would recommend Joyce to any couples looking for an officiant. She is warm and professional and helped in making our special day perfect.
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    Tara Sent on 01/24/2019
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    Highly Recommended

    Joyce was awesome! So friendly and funny. We'd definitely highly recommend Joyce to anyone getting married.
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    Highly recommend Joyce

    My (now) husband and I had Joyce officiate our wedding, and we thought our ceremony was perfect. Joyce provided us with suggestions to help craft our ceremony, which was extremely helpful. We had a 'wine box ceremony' that Joyce encouraged us to include, and we are so glad we did. Our friends and family enjoyed the unique and romantic addition to our ceremony.

    Since our wedding was fairly small (we had 27 people in attendance, including our bridal and grooms parties of just a Matron of Honor and Best Man), Joyce told us that we did not necessarily need a rehearsal, and would save quite a bit of money by not having one. Joyce didn't have to tell us this (she LOST money by suggesting this) but her honesty was so appreciated and special. We did not have a rehearsal, and I think our ceremony went fairly smoothly.

    I highly encourage you to reach out to Joyce if you are in need of an officiant!
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    Awesome officiant

    Joyce is an amazing wedding officiant. She makes the ceremony loving, serious, and funny.
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    Charles Sent on 10/22/2018
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    MDDC Weddings

    A pleasure to work with. She made the ceremony flow with ease. I would highly recommend her services to anyone in need.
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    Zane Sent on 10/08/2018
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    We held a small ceremony at the Green Springs Gardens in Alexandria, VA with no guests, but us, Joyce as our marriage officiant and just as lovely photographer Darcy Troutman. We chose to contact Joyce after reading all the good reviews on internet, and are happy how it worked out. Joyce was lovely, friendly and with good sense of humor. She made us feel at ease when talking to her before the ceremony as well as on our wedding day.
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    Helen Sent on 10/01/2018
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    Joyce is truly amazing! She is so easy to work with and very easy to communicate with. she is willing to customize your wedding to fit you. I have known Joyce for several years now and I would not have picked anyone else except for her to do my wedding.
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    Amanda Sent on 09/16/2018
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    Joyce is absolutely wonderful! She is detail oriented, professional, and has an amazing sense of humor. Joyce made the whole process so easy and stress free. Our ceremony was exactly what we wanted and I know our guests enjoyed it as well. I highly recommend Joyce.
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    Sarah Sent on 09/03/2018
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    Joyce was INCREDIBLE! Could not have asked for a better officiant. She kept us laughing, kept the whole thing fun and relaxed, and made it the best day ever for us. I wouldn't recommend anyone else to officiate the best day of your life!
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    Gina Sent on 08/22/2018
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    Joyce was great to work with! Our rehearsal was kept on track because of her and she kept our service light and entertaining which was exactly what we wanted. I would highly recommend her!
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    Betty Sent on 08/08/2018
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    Joyce was an absolute pleasure to have as part of our wedding ceremony.
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    Bryan Sent on 08/05/2018
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    Joyce performed our wedding with about three weeks notice. From start to finish she was charming, genuinely interested in us and what we had in our minds, accommodated every request, and made our day so special. We felt lucky to have Joyce marry us, and could not be more appreciative of her professionalism, kindness, and sense of humor. Absolutely wonderful experience, we would highly recommend her for any wedding big or small, same-sex marriage, or heterosexual marriage. She drove almost three hours to where we wanted to perform our wedding which was a bit further than her normal range but none the less did so with a smile on her face. She was there for us in every way. Much love Joyce! Always, Bryan and Michael.
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    We hired Joyce to perform our wedding in June 2018. She was wonderful to work with, from beginning to end. She personalized our ceremony and added humor. We loved the keepsake she created for us - a complete book of our ceremony, so special.
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    Ainsley Sent on 06/26/2018
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    My husband and I had a great experience! Joyce is very bubbly and had the friends and family laughing. The ceremony was short and sweet as well, which we loved !
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    Liz Sent on 06/20/2018
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    Joyce, was responsive and wonderful from the moment I contacted her. She made a point to get to know us and make us comfortable before our big day. Joyce supplied a wealth of information about the process and even helpful tips about writing our vows! I had upmost confidence that Joyce would be there, fully prepared, and as helpful as ever on our actual wedding day. I would recommend Joyce to anyone. My wedding photographer even commented on how great she is and got her contact information. Thank you Joyce for being apart of our special day! Best, Liz and Joe
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    Emily Sent on 04/02/2018
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    Joyce was the absolute best! From the moment we met her, we knew she was perfect for our ceremony. She is witty, full of life, and has great ideas to create the ceremony of your dreams. Our guests all said how beautiful our ceremony was. Thanks Joyce!
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    Tracey Sent on 03/27/2018
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    Joyce was delightful to work with, starting with our first phone conversation thru completion of the wedding ceremony. She is courteous, friendly, funny and quick witted. Dawn and I are not traditional people at all and was not looking for someone who was stoic and formal. Joyce made us laugh and our wedding was exactly as we had hoped it would be. I would highly recommend Joyce to everyone, every day of the week! We loved her!!
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    Joshua Sent on 03/21/2018
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    Joyce was great! I would recommend her to anyone. She was professional, on time, and honored our wishes.
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    James Sent on 02/12/2018
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    Joyce was the highlight of my wedding. Her professionalism, and welcoming spirit opened up the guest at our LGBT Wedding.

    It was a journey to find a great officiant, but the minute we sat down with Joyce she was the one and we knew it! Her options for ceremonies, and flexibility around “It’s your Day” is phenomenal. I would have been very saddened if we had not picked Joyce.

    So many things could have went wrong, Joyce made every shortcoming look like a crowd engagement moment with elegance and humor.

    To Joyce: Thank you so much for making our weddding day 1 to remember . You are amazing and keep wearing all the latest fashions and continue to be stunning and elegant.
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    Jo Sent on 01/22/2018
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    Joyce was an amazing officiant and perfect for what my husband and I wanted for our ceremony. She's lovely, hilarious, and definitely calmed our nerves during the ceremony. That and her voice and accent are beautiful, which is great! Thanks Joyce!
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    Nathan Sent on 12/01/2017
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    Joyce was amazing! She worked with two grooms who weren't quite sure what we wanted and helped make our ceremony extremely special. We really appreciated the different templates she had and the fact that we were able to meet her via Skype initially. As we went throughout the process, Joyce continually checked in with us and helped us create a timeline for the ceremony that we wanted. The wine box ceremony went extremely well and it helped make our ceremony extremely unique. We wanted a quick ceremony and she helped us with the overall outline while still keeping it meaningful. Joyce was also great the day of. She showed up early to see if she needed to do a soundcheck which was awesome. She was extremely reassuring and helped us with all of the paperwork as well. Thank you Joyce for all of your help with our wedding and helping to make it extremely special. Several of our guests have told us how beautiful the ceremony was and we couldn't agree more! Thank you!
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    Catherine Sent on 12/01/2017
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    Joyce officiated our 250 person formal wedding this past October in DC. We waited until the last minute to find an officient but Joyce was great and quick working within our tight timeline. We met a few weeks out to discuss the ceremony and she gladly customized the ceremony to exactly what we wanted pleasing both us and our families ;) She facilitated our rehearsal the day before and did a great job getting all our troops in line. The day of she was a great source of calm, giving me great advice right before walking down the aisle. Everyone afterwards said she was terrific and entertaining! Thanks for everything Joyce!
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    Julian Sent on 11/23/2017
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    Joyce was very nice and helped me every step of the way. My fiancée did the majority of the leg work.
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    Liz Sent on 11/20/2017
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    Joyce was wonderful to work with! She was very knowledgable and accommodating. On the day of our wedding she was a calming presence and helped everything go smoothly. We highly recommend working with her!
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    Janelle Sent on 11/17/2017
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    As we were planning our wedding, my now husband and I were struggling to find an officiant. Joyce came recommended to us by our wedding coordinator. We knew as soon as we met Joyce that she would be our officiant - and we could not made a better choice! Joyce was responsive from day one right through to our ceremony. Joyce was flexible and allowed us to create exactly the ceremony that we wanted. But, most of all, Joyce is a genuine, warm, and kind person - not to mention humorous! She treated us like old friends from the moment that we met. It was it truly an honor to have such an amazing person marry us. We loved her and so did our guests! Thank you Joyce for an amazing ceremony (and for braving the cold that day). We could not have such a perfect day without you!
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    Rachel Sent on 11/17/2017
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    From the very beginning Joyce was so incredibly helpful. We had no idea what to expect- not just from picking an officiant, but from the planning aspect as well- and Joyce was able to share her experience and ideas with us. She can recommend catering, photography, music, etc. On our wedding day she was there ready and set up so that I didn't have to worry or wait. During the ceremony she was just great and was able to break the ice and make both of us feel comfortable. Please give her a call if you need an officiant! It's the best and easiest move you could make for yourself on your wedding day ! Love her services !
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    Randi Sent on 11/14/2017
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    My husband and I cannot say enough good things about Joyce! We walked away from our first meeting knowing that we just had to have her officiate our wedding ceremony. She was a pleasure to work with throughout the whole process, and it was clear how important it was to her to make things absolutely perfect for our big day. We received many compliments from our wedding guests about how beautiful our ceremony was, and how great Joyce was. We are so thankful to have found such a wonderful officiant, and we highly recommend her!
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    Holly Sent on 11/13/2017
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    Joyce was amazing! We instantly connected with Joyce from the moment we met her. She has a pure joy of celebrating your special day with you and your partner! She made us feel that she would do whatever it took to fight for our rights! If your looking for someone who is 100% invested, look no further! She made our day amazing! Thank you Joyce!
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    Leslie Sent on 11/08/2017
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    Joyce is a lovely, warm person to be around and was just wonderful as our officiant for our wedding. She has a great, calming energy and is also very professional and prompt. She provided a long list of sample ceremonies and readings so my husband and I could pick out exactly what we wanted and in what order. Our guests raved about her all through the reception (and beyond). I would highly recommend her to any couple!
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    Kameron Sent on 11/08/2017
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    Joyce was wonderful to work with. She made planning our ceremony so easy, was quick to respond to any questions or concerns that we had, and was incredibly flexible. Joyce brings her vibrant personality and warm demeanor to make for a beautiful ceremony!
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    Patricia Sent on 11/07/2017
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    From the moment we contacted Joyce, it’s been a pleasant and professional experience. We had a more casual wedding but Joyce treats every marriage experience with utmost respect. We had a meet and greet to discuss details of our expectations and to talk face-to-face before she married us. Joyce is easy to talk to and share ideas with. She always puts the couples wishes as the basis of the ceremony. On our wedding day, Joyce is calm and has performed many ceremonies which helped put my nerves at ease (as the bride). The ceremony went beautifully and I’m so grateful we chose to have Joyce officiate our special day. Top notch professional and a beautiful person all in one!
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    Robin Sent on 10/22/2017
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    Joyce was wonderful to work with. She was always immediately responsive to my emails and communications. During our first meeting we discussed several options for the wedding ceremony and what might work with our style. We bounced around ideas and reading. She guided but allowed us to come to our own determination for the feel of the ceremony. As the time grew closer she checked in with us several times to confirm details. She dealt with a last minute reader change with ease. She even maintained her cool with the ceremony site was buzzing with bees, which even landed on her ceremony book. She was cheerful and pleasant and had guests laughing which put us all at ease. Oh, she also makes some of the best shortbread I have even had. I highly recommend having her make some and taking it on your honeymoon. Simply fantastic!!
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    Amanda Sent on 07/20/2017
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    Joyce is excellent! The first time we met her, she was warm and kind and some one my husband and I wanted to sit around and talk with all day! Any time we emailed her with a question, she responded immediately. During our wedding ceremony, she provided enough humor to calm our nerves and make us smile. Our guests were raving about her all through the reception. She is perfect!
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    Sharon Sent on 07/05/2017
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    Joyce Hilbery was awesome to work with as our officiant for our wedding ceronmony!! She was responsive with all emails and phone calls and she offered great ideas for creating our wedding ceronmony!! She was great to work with in planning our wedding!!
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    Caitlin Sent on 06/28/2017
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    I met Joyce at a bridal show in Frederick and was immediately impressed with her demeanor and ability to make a personal connection with a complete stranger. She did an amazing job putting my fears of never finding an officiant to rest, and I knew when I walked out the of the building I would be using her for the ceremony. She made special accomodations to meet at a local coffee shop with me and my fiance about 6 months before the wedding to make sure we understood her services and knew what we needed to do before the big day. Many of the guests at our wedding were so pleased with her they have asked my now husband and I for her information to use in the future. She is a very professional and personable lady who made my day feel special to people who had been to plenty of weddings before.
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    Kirk Sent on 06/13/2017
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    Joyce was absolutely wonderful to work with. She was warm and funny, and added just the right amount of humor to the ceremony to keep us relaxed and the guest entertained. She was definitely a hit with out guest!
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    Erin Sent on 06/08/2017
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    Joyce is amazing! We knew we had to have her be part of our big day from our initial meeting. She is very accommodating and gave us the ability to create a ceremony that was perfectly fit to our style. Not only did we love her but our guests couldn't stop talking about how much they loved her either!
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    Ariel Sent on 06/01/2017
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    We feel so lucky to have gotten Joyce as our officiant! We were told to book quickly because she is in high demand, and we are so glad we did! Many of our guests commented on how fun she was and how it seemed as though we had known her for a long time. Joyce's wisdom and humor were a perfect match for my husband and I. We couldn't have chosen someone better if we tried, truly!
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    Vince Sent on 06/01/2017
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    It was an absolute pleasure to have Joyce as our wedding officiant. We know from first talking with her that she would be the right person and we were correct. The ceremony was beautiful and very special. We received a number of compliments from our guests.
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    Justin Sent on 05/22/2017
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    Joyce was absolutely phenomenal. She was professional, knowledgeable, kind & helpful. My wife did her research before selecting Joyce and it shows. Extremely happy she was our officiant on our big day.
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    Dawn Sent on 05/10/2017
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    When you choose Joyce as your officiant, not only are you ensuring that you'll have an experienced professional to guide you through all of the important details related to your ceremony, but you're also welcoming a new friend into your life! From our first meeting, Joyce made it clear that her goal was to ensure our ceremony reflected our personalities and included the things that were important to us, while also making recommendations based on her experience and ensuring that we had all of the information we needed. Her candid, direct style, combined with humor and a true love for people, helps her to not only connect with people but also to connect others. And this came across as we got to know her AND on our wedding day, as she delivered a beautiful, personal, lovely, and FUN ceremony for us as well as our guests!

    In addition to delivering an outstanding service, I also wanted to mention one of the things that became so important as we were planning our wedding... availability and responsiveness. Joyce provided us with both e-mail and telephone contact information, and each of the several times we had questions for her leading up to our wedding day, Joyce responded almost immediately. In one instance, she even called me to say she was at another wedding, and would be about 2 more hours and would call me right back, just because she wanted to ensure I knew she'd gotten my message! And, when we had a change in plans just a week before our wedding, to add a rehearsal on the day before our wedding when we hadn't planned to do a rehearsal, Joyce made herself available with this very short notice to join us to ensure that everything went smoothly, and that we had FUN! :) Our wedding day definitely wouldn't have been the same without Joyce!
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    Emily Sent on 05/08/2017
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    Let me just start by saying...do yourself a huge favor a book Joyce as your officiant! She will make your day everything you have ever dreamed of and more. I planned my wedding at Springfield Manor all the way from Florida, so I had to rely on other couple's wedding videos to choose my officiant. When I saw how friendly, carefree and funny Joyce was in a few videos, I knew she was the one! We e-mailed back and forth over the course of the year and she made me feel so comfortable even without meeting face to face. She was beyond flexible with whatever we wanted to make the day special for us. When we finally got to meet Joyce at our rehearsal I knew we had made the BEST choice. Everyone working at our venue said "Oh my goodness we love when Joyce is the officiant, she completely takes control of the ceremony and makes sure everything happens effortlessly." And that is exactly what she did! She made us feel so comfortable, told a few jokes to lighten the mood (and keep everyone in line) and walked us through how the entire ceremony would play out. On our actual wedding day, I think Joyce may have gotten more compliments than any other vendor we used. I can't count how many times guests asked us who our officiant was, how we found her, or complimented how amazing the ceremony was. She is simply the best!! She also gave us a little binder with a copy of our ceremony and vows, which was such a special unexpected surprise! I wish I could get married again just so I could spend some more time with Joyce!
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    Joseph Sent on 04/10/2017
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    Joyce was wonderful to work with! She was fun, kind, and made the entire process simple. You'd be silly not go pick her!
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    Jennifer Sent on 04/03/2017
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    Joyce was an absolute dream to work with and we are so happy we had her officiate our wedding ceremony. We met to discuss our needs for the ceremony and right away, we knew she was the right person for the job. She helped guide us through the process and was very responsive when we had questions. Her charm and sense of humor made us feel like we had known her for years. She was courteous and professional. Most of all, she did a great job keeping the groom and best man in line as they can be quite a handful. Thank you for everything Joyce!
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    Joyce made everything so simple for us and set us at ease every step along the way. Our initial meeting with her was on Skype, but we felt connected to her immediately. Her personality is so fun and reassuring. She ran the rehearsal and was early on our wedding day! Everything went smooth and exactly as we hoped. She's funny and warm and kept everyone smiling throughout our ceremony. We adore her and know you will too!
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    Joyce was a pleasure to work with! She was responsive to our questions and provided great suggestions to making the ceremony memorable. Many guests commented throughout the evening how great the ceremony was. I highly recommend her!
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    Erika Sent on 11/01/2016
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    Joyce was a pleasure to work with. She was very professional and helped make our ceremony exactly what we hoped for. I would highly recommend her and am glad we found someone who helped make our ceremony go so smoothly.
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    Keith Sent on 10/27/2016
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    We wanted my brother to perform the service (he performs many weddings in another state). Unfortunately, Virginia has very strict requirements. MDDC Weddings agreed to officiate (attending the service and signing all of the documents, etc.), while allowing my brother to perform the ceremonial function. Thank you Reverend Hilbery!
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    Cristina Sent on 10/24/2016
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    We knew within two minutes of meeting Joyce that she was the perfect officiant for us. She is very easy to work with, responsive, reasonably-priced, and just a wonderful person. We didn't want a traditional ceremony, and Joyce worked with us on the quirks we wanted to include in our ceremony. It was a perfect blend of sentimentality, humor, and nerdiness that made our guests both cry and laugh. We couldn't have found a more perfect officiant! Oh, and she has a soft Scottish brogue that is absolutely charming (as is Joyce herself)!
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    Claudette Sent on 10/22/2016
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    Highly recommend! Joyce is the BEST!!! She is extremely easy to work with and made our ceremony fantastic!
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    Shannon Sent on 10/10/2016
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    Joyce is the BEST! We had the best time with her. She made the ceremony so fun and enjoyable for not just us, but everyone who was there. She got us all put together for rehearsal so we all felt like we knew what to do at the ceremony. When our nerves kicked in at the ceremony and my fiance and I had some small missteps she made light of them and turned those moments into funny moments. Everyone in attendance raved about how much they loved her and how laid back and us the ceremony was. Several people asked for her card for their weddings as well. I can't say enough wonderful things about Joyce besides that if you're looking at this you should definitely have her as your minister at your wedding!
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    Suzanne Sent on 09/26/2016
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    Working with Joyce was a great experience from the first phone call through the ceremony itself. She managed to make the ceremony as clear, simple and approachable as possible, giving us a plug and play template to work with and the flexibility to make the ceremony our own. The simplicity of the process did not at all take away from the magic of the ceremony, friends and family all exclaimed how much they loved Joyce's style and assumed we'd known each other for a long time. She saved us money and time, talking us out of the rehearsal and keeping everything straightforward, while still adding humor and warmth to the event. Couldn't be happier.
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    Nicole Sent on 08/10/2016
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    Joyce was wonderful to work with. We were anxious from the start regarding our ceremony and we did not get married in our home town, so we found Joyce on weddingwire (relying on positive reviews during our searches) and we instantly fell in love with her on the phone! She puts a lot of care into her work and she was very helpful with giving us advice on our vows and wedding ceremony in general. She was accommodating and patient with our large bridal party (9 on each side) and performed a rehearsal with us the day before our wedding. She did not bat an eye when we requested to have all four of my younger brothers walk my Mom down the aisle! Joyce arrived on time (AKA early!) to our rehearsal and wedding and she was such a source of calm for my husband and I prior to and during the ceremony when the nerves really started to set in! She worked well with our DJ regarding ceremony music, entrances and microphone coordination. Joyce included everything we asked her to in our ceremony and her personality and accent were a huge hit. Our ceremony was exactly how we imagined it. Our guests LOVED her and we got SO many compliments and questions on how we found her! So lucky she was a special part of our big day. If we could go back, we would hire Joyce again!
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    Amanda Sent on 08/04/2016
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    Joyce was a wonderful officiant!! She was so professional and put my husband and I at ease while standing at the alter. She was the perfect mix of funny and serious. So many guests came up to us after and commented on how great she was. I would highly recommend her!!
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    Rachel Sent on 07/11/2016
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    Joyce worked out wonderfully! I'm so glad I stumbled upon her Wedding Wire page. She was great to work with, and did a great job. It was important to me to find an officiant that was non-denominational as I'm not religious. It was hard to find someone whose ceremony didn't use the words god or spiritual or matrimony. Joyce let us customize the entire ceremony, it was just perfect. Thank you for making our day so amazing!
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    Charles Sent on 06/26/2016
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    Joyce was an absolute joy to work with. As a gay couple, we were very apprehensive about finding someone we would be comfortable with and who would be comfortable working with us. We met her at the LGBT Wedding expo and fell in love with her. She was so accepting of us and our needs. She was extremely flexible with our ideas for what would make our day special and we cannot recommend her enough. She was professional, responsive, flexible, and an all-around a beautiful person.
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    Devin Sent on 06/23/2016
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    Joyce was amazing to work with throughout the entire wedding process! From the moment we met her, we knew that she was who we wanted to be our officiant on our big day. She was kind, responsive, and genuine in her work! She made the day so much easier on my wife and I. Having Joyce lead our ceremony was one of the easiest and best decisions we made for our wedding!
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    Joyce was great and we loved her accent. Rehearsal went well as did the ceremony. She was delightful to work with and we liked the binder she provided of our ceremony in print, a nice reminder of the special day.
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    Alissa Sent on 06/22/2016
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    From the Moment we first starting talking with Joyce she was wonderful !
    She is super easy to work with and truely carea bout every couple she works with! All of our guests loved Joyces and said how provided nice little laughs during the ceremony !

    I would highly recomend her !
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    Joyce Hilbery was the perfect officiant for my daughter's wedding. Her calm nature and professionalism were the perfect combination to calm nerves and keep everyone on the same page. The ceremony was warm, loving and memorable due to Joyce's choice of format and wording. She added some light hearted moments that kept with the reverence of the occasion while adding smiles on the faces of all who attended. It was perfect!
    Her lilting Scottish accent makes even the most ordinary words sound enchanting! And then there are her shoes.......an officiant gown is a somber garment yet Joyce added her personality with floral patterned heels. Highly recommend Joyce Hilbery to any couple!!!!
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    Erin Sent on 06/01/2016
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    From the first moment that we spoke with Joyce, we were sure that she was the one for our wedding. Joyce has an amazing energy and spirit about her that made us smile quickly and also provided us with full confidence that she would be able to provide the perfect balance of sincerity and spunk for our ceremony. While in the planning stages, Joyce was very responsive, accommodating, informative, and personable. We never felt like "just another couple" to her and that feeling conveyed on the wedding day as well. Our guests raved about her and many said that it seemed as though she had known us for a long time. I cannot recommend this woman enough. Hire her; you will be glad that you did!
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    Rick Sent on 05/31/2016
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    We couldn't be happier with Joyce and the services she provided. From Day 1 of meeting, she met us with a hug and a smile. She was easy to speak with and felt as if we had known her for a long time. She was professional and provided us with many options for our ceremony. During the ceremony, she made our guest feel at ease as we read our vows (and tried to hold back our tears of joy). We received such positive feedback from our guest stating how great the ceremony was and how great Joyce was. All in all, we couldn't be happier with our ceremony and wedding.
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    User2629854 Sent on 05/22/2016
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    Really enjoyed having Joyce as our officiant, we're happy to have worked with her.
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    Bailey Sent on 05/16/2016
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    Joyce is an amazing officiant as well as an amazing person. She was the only officiant my fiance and I met with and we knew right away that she was right for us. Her fun and energetic personality was just what we were looking for. She has a list of ceremony wording options that we could chose from which was very helpful. She is a nondenominational officiant, but we were able to chose readings based on how religious/spiritual we wanted it to be. We were also able to change some of the wording and vows to our liking. She is very quick to respond via email and could answer any question I had. Our ceremony was beautiful, she has such a lovely speaking voice and went through all the readings at the perfect pace. My fiance was very nervous when my ring wouldn't go over my knuckle, and she made a little joke that made everyone laugh and eased his nerves; I believe she said "just spit on it and it will go on!" All of our guests not only commented on how great she was, but also how amazing her shoes were! Joyce is a very nice, caring, and fun person, she was wonderful to work with and we hightly recommend her to anyone!
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    My (now) husband and I could not have found a better individual to officiate our wedding than in Joyce! She was in constant communication with us throughout the entire process and helped to put together a fantastic, touching ceremony that spoke to us as a couple more than anything. Joyce is a powerhouse - she has authority, direction, and a wonderful sense of humor! My family simply loved her and my husband and I will certainly be in touch with her for any "renewals" in the future.
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    Holly Sent on 02/02/2016
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    Joyce was wonderful! We were so fortunate to have her as part of the best day of our lives. Our wedding planners were blown away by her professionalism and experience, and I would recommend her to anyone who wants to have their ceremony go exactly the way they want!
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    Lara Sent on 10/19/2015
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    We couldn't be happier with our choice to have Joyce officiate our wedding. We also opted to have her do the rehearsal with us and I am so glad we did.

    I can't say enough about how organized she was throughout the whole process. We had a very large wedding party, and even though I am a very organized person (I passed out spreadsheets and diagrams of who stands where and who walks with who, etc.) the rehearsal would have been total chaos if Joyce had not taken charge and kindly but firmly directed the rehearsal ceremony.

    Her info packet of vows and ceremony ideas was so helpful and allowed us to put together a very tailored and personal ceremony. At the end of our wedding, she also gave us a nice binder that was beautifully organized with all of the text from our ceremony and our marriage license. This will be something that we will save in a special place and read through on our anniversaries.

    Joyce was kind, funny and well spoken. She seems to have a genuinely good heart and I am so grateful she was a part of our special day.

    Lara
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    Phyllis Sent on 10/19/2015
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    Our experience with Joyce Hilbery was amazing. From our first phone contact to our first meeting at lunch, it was evident that Joyce really cared deeply for this couple she was preparing to marry. Joyce infused her heart and soul into her responsibilities as an officiant. She was truly focused on making our experience everything we wanted it to be and made sure she was right by our side prior to our ceremony to keep us calm and to give us the heartfelt advice we needed to hear. After our ceremony, Joyce presented us with a book that she compiled containing our ceremony, our bags that held our rings and our just signed marriage certificate. We not only appreciated her professional guidance, we were also so incredibly touched by her eloquence, grace and humor with which she delivered our wedding ceremony. We are so grateful to have found Joyce Hilbery. Our hearts will always be full when we remember our wedding day and how Joyce was able to make our special day that much more special with her wit charm and her presence. We thank you Joyce from the deepest part of our hearts. Phyllis and PJ
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