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Reverends Pat & Kelly are ordained, non-denominational ministers/officiants. We will create meaningful stress free, customized ceremony that will express your love through laughter & joy - a special day of warm memories - a day to share your deepest feelings.

WE GIVE YOU CHOICES - Male or Female Officiant

As your wedding officiants, we work for YOU!

We recognize our part as a sacred trust!!

We understand that the person you choose to perform your wedding ceremony will share a very personal and spiritual moment in your life. We include stories of your courtship, add personal touches about what makes your love story special.

Your couple-centered ceremony will be customized to reflect your love, dreams, beliefs, values, and cultural traditions - whether spiritual, religious, traditional, non-traditional or secular.

Custom Ceremonies:

Beach Weddings, Elopements,

Vow Renewals Theme Weddings,

Blending of Families Destination Weddings

Wine Country Weddings

In:

San Diego, Temecula Wine Country

Orange & Riverside Counties

Call us at 760-512-1057 for more information!

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Baptist
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker

Reviews of A Forever After Wedding

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Denise Sent on 11/03/2016
5 out of 5 rating
Rev Pat was wonderful. She met with us prior to the wedding and her first question was 'what do you love about your fiance'......... she wrote the ceremony to fit us..........it was very personal, funny, thoughtful and spiritual..........just what we wanted. I would highly recommend her! We could not have asked for better............she helped make our day perfect!
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Robert Sent on 10/27/2016
5 out of 5 rating
We had planned a beach wedding and live in Phoenix. Certainly the person to perform the ceremony was important and Rev Pat was perfect. In addition I had asked for suggestions on other services. She provided options for flowers, photos and music. These were all great suggestions. Best of all I had misjudged the tide. No problem Pat took off her shoes, clutched the rings tightly and off we went to the sand. It was GREAT.
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Carlisa Sent on 10/27/2016
5 out of 5 rating
When it comes to Rev Pat, all I can say is "Heaven Sent"! Professional, pleasant, polite, articulate, prompt, knowledgeable, I could go on and on! We live in Chicago and decided to have a California destination wedding. We had no idea what Rev. we were going to use to perform our ceremony. We took a chance with Rev. Pat and boy were we GLAD!!!! We reached out to Rev Pat a week before our ceremony, so she only had a short amount of time to prepare for our service. We only actually met her when she arrived for the wedding. However, when she began speaking, we were pleasantly surprised! It was like she had known us all of our lives! She told our story so beautifully! She was smart and witty and kept our guest engaged. After the ceremony some of our guest said "where did you guys find her, she was amazing"! I almost never leave reviews, but in this case I had to leave one, this lady was truly amazing! We plan on renewing our vows every year in California and of course it is a must that Rev Pat be there to perform our ceremony each time. If you are getting married please reach out to her. You will not be disappointed! Rev Pat if you are reading this, my husband and I are sending you a great big hug, thank you and we'll see you next year! :)
User2748734 Sent on 08/30/2016
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pat & Kelly are the sweetest! From our 1st meeting to our wedding day they made the process seamlessly easy for us and gave us exactly what we wanted. Everyone loved the ceremony and most of all they listened to what we wanted and made it special for us and all our guests!
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User1492075 Sent on 01/02/2014
5 out of 5 rating
reverend pat was awesome very flexable with her time and accomadating in our situation, mom lives with us and we sometimes have hard time getting out with out care giver , she came to our home. she was very helpful with the vows giving us ideas and some to look at and read for later and get back with her. she was also the reverend at my daughters weeding in 2004.
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Lucy Sent on 09/04/2012
5 out of 5 rating
Reverend Pat was absolutely amazing! She really made our day special and was able to accommodate my husband and I on our wedding day. She really made our day special and our wedding ceremony was beautiful because of her.
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User920187 Sent on 09/02/2012
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Kelly and Rev. Pat crafted a personalized wedding ceremony that reflected the wishes of the bride and groom perfectly. Since we were working without a wedding coordinator, Rev. Pat was on hand to give advice and keep everything on track, and Rev. Kelly gave us a beautiful ceremony as officiant. The wedding ceremony was a success thanks to Rev. Kelly and Rev. Pat Borsum.
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Lori Sent on 08/30/2012
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pat gave us the Ceremony of our dreams! It felt like we had known her forever! Everyone commented about her superb job!!
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Martha Sent on 08/23/2012
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Kelly was amazing!! He took his time explaining things and guided us through the ceremony process. He went out of his way many times even months after the wedding when we were having a difficult time obtainng our marrige license with the county clerk's office. We enjoyed working with him!
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Emma Sent on 08/23/2012
5 out of 5 rating
Rev. Pat was so helpful in creating a wedding ceremony that was uniquely ours. We wanted a non-religious ceremony with a handfasting; she emailed us examples and worked with us to meet our needs. The ceremony was lovely and just what we wanted.
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Awards

18
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

10 Endorsements
Carrie McCluskey Photography Carrie McCluskey Photography Wedding Photographers

ALWAYS a pleasure to work with!

Melissa McClure Photography Melissa McClure Photography Wedding Photographers

Rev. Pat is truly a joy to work with. She is prompt, friendly and delivers a beautiful ceremony. I would highly recommend her to any of my couples.

San Diego Botanic Garden San Diego Botanic Garden Park & Outdoor Weddings

An absolute pleasure to have here in the Garden! Thank you for helping us make weddings special.

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