Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Laura M
VIP August 2014

"You may now kiss the bride" But how?!

Laura M, on June 20, 2012 at 10:59 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 34

How do you plan on kissing? I watched The Wedding Singer last night and it got me thinking about what kind of kiss! lol. So many possibilities, open mouth, closed mouth, tongue, no tongue etc... I've seen pictures where it looks like people are swallowing each others faces but I've also seen pics where it looks like the lips are barely touching. How do you want to be kissed on your big day in front of everyone?

34 Comments

Latest activity by HRH Mags, on June 20, 2012 at 11:46 PM
  • Anonymous
    VIP October 2012
    Anonymous ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Its funny that you ask this, because I've been thinking about this lately. When I kiss the FH i've been thinking, is this how i'd want it the day we get married? Smiley smile I think i want it in between, not just a peck like we barely know each other, but I don't want a big makeout session where people don't want to look! I think whatever comes natural will work!

    • Reply
  • Amanda
    Master July 2012
    Amanda ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    FH and I haven't even talked about this. We will probably end doing a little open mouth kiss. No making out, just a sweet kiss that is a little more than a peck.

    • Reply
  • FallBride
    Super October 2012
    FallBride ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We haven't discussed this. I hadn't even thought of this until now. I guess I am thinking more close mouth, sweet small kiss Smiley smile

    • Reply
  • Sara
    VIP May 2013
    Sara ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    FH and I have joked about this. I think that we will be so nervous and excited that it doesn't even matter what we plan.

    • Reply
  • Pan
    Master March 2012
    Pan ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We kissed like we would in public. Closed mouth, not super long.

    • Reply
  • Mrs. Clark aka Mrs Awesomepants
    Master November 2011
    Mrs. Clark aka Mrs Awesomepants ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I threw my arms around his neck and gave him a big smooch...closed mouth lol

    • Reply
  • Michelle P
    VIP October 2014
    Michelle P ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    LOL! I was thinking about this too & we'll probably just do a 5 sec slightly opened mouth kiss but no tongue got to be respectful in front of guest lol as a guest, I would totally feel uncomfortable watching the bride & groom have a make-out session lol but during the reception I would sneak out H to take it all in & plant a good one on him Smiley winking ha ha!

    • Reply
  • Crystal Bleu
    Super May 2012
    Crystal Bleu ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Let me just show you what we did... ;-)

    And we kissed a few times, just closed-mouth, successively shorter kisses, until we felt it was time to step back and take a look at each other. It was the best part of the day...we wanted it to last.




    • Reply
  • Ab
    Master October 2011
    Ab ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Yes I suggest practicing..you get so caught up in the moment and really forget others are there lol. we kissed like mouth closed , DH lingered so I opened my mouth and he did his for a sec..people giggled lol It wasn't like sloppy just that it was prob a few more seconds than we had discussed with each other before. :-)

    • Reply
  • Aimee R (formerly Aimee B)
    Super September 2012
    Aimee R (formerly Aimee B) ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I have to be honest, when I can see the tongues darting back and forth that's just tacky.

    • Reply
  • Tiffany Morris
    Super October 2012
    Tiffany Morris ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    FH and I have joked about this! He jokingly always says I'm going to plant a big one on you! i told him that we were not going to make out up there. That would just be embarrassing. I think closed mouth kind of in the middle between a peck and a make out session will be just fine.

    • Reply
  • MrsKAllTheWay
    Super October 2012
    MrsKAllTheWay ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Ermmm, closed moth, slightly longer than a peck so we can get pictures. Maybe a couple times like @Crystal (so cute, btw!).

    • Reply
  • Aidan (Mrs. Cowgell!)
    VIP July 2012
    Aidan (Mrs. Cowgell!) ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    The kiss is the one thing I am not allowing myself to think about. I want that moment to be organic. And to borrow a bit from The Princess Diaries (love that movie), I want my foot to pop. Of course, that happens fairly often so I don't need to worry.

    @ Crystal Bleu OMG, that looks like such an incredibly sweet moment! As FH's niece puts it, you two are gag adorable!

    • Reply
  • Fiona
    Super October 2012
    Fiona ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We're not particularly in to a lot of PDA lol so to see us kiss at all people will be happy. I think we'll be like @Aidan and just let hit happen however its gonna happen

    • Reply
  • Kari
    Expert June 2012
    Kari ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Everyone told us that it was the embrace after the kiss that made everyone cry... we did a closed mouth short kiss but then a great big hug and I melted in to his arms Smiley smile

    • Reply
  • FutureMrsGarguilo
    Super July 2014
    FutureMrsGarguilo ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Knowing us, it'll probably be an open mouth kiss...probably short because we'll start smiling and laughing and then he'll pick me up!

    • Reply
  • FutureMrsGarguilo
    Super July 2014
    FutureMrsGarguilo ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I personally don't like being at weddings and seeing a small peck. It always looks like the couple is not in love.

    • Reply
  • Iris
    Master February 2014
    Iris ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Like others, we are doing a closed but lingered kiss. No making out, I think it's a littl TMI for weddings atleast. But then again I plan to pull him into a few corners when noones looking & get some tongue action lmao

    I did tell FH I would love to do the kiss & dip thing, he's only done it once & since then I've gained weight, so has he, so I've been afraid he cant hold me or will bend too far. He got cute, said let's test it, did it well. I think the key is you dont have to go so far to the ground, just a small dip will get the audience applausing I think.

    • Reply
  • ThenewMrs.Ruffin
    Expert April 2012
    ThenewMrs.Ruffin ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We practiced before wedding. LOL. But on the day it was a sweet tender kiss. I think it was like 1 long one followed by two short ones.

    Here are some shots of us.




    • Reply
  • Laura M
    VIP August 2014
    Laura M ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    So far all I know is that I am going to have to tip toe and he is going to have to bend down unless I wear very high heels. I am 5 feet and he is over 6! I love all of your answers, and i plan to jump my FH in private as well teehee

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics