Which came first: sending your save-the-dates or asking your wedding party?

Just finished asking my wedding party! STDs go out in about a month!

Wedding party was set within a month of getting engaged (March this year) Save the Dates will go out in March for our November wedding.

We asked our wedding party first, I think.

We never sent STD but we sent invites before I asked my cousin to be my MOH

It'll be the wedding party since they all live out of state and need more notice than the in-state guests.

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Lol!! Good thinking!!

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That's awesome!! How did you ask them?

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I made an ornament with pictures of us in it. Tried to keep with the Christmas-y theme!

I asked my wedding party first I plan to send out save the dates in February!

We asked our friends and family to be in the wedding party first!

Asking my wedding party. I talked to my sisters and cousin about it back when we first got engaged and I asked my friend a few months ago. I just sent my STDs at the end of November.

I asked my wedding party first! I had to do a roll call lol

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Aww that sounds so cute!

We asked our wedding party before the save the dates were sent.

Not doing save the dates, don't get the added expense, so asking the people to be in the bridal party

I asked my wedding party first and not sending out dave the dates until Jan/Feb 2019.

Asking our wedding party! It was so obvious who it as going to be, I was too excited to wait.

We asked our wedding party a little over a month after getting engaged so we definitely did that first!

Wedding party. I don’t think we will be sending save the dates; however, it’s a year out from the wedding and I already have my bridal party. Save the dates, if we do send them, would definitely go out a little closer to the wedding.

Asking the wedding party. I haven’t sent the save the dates yet but that will be coming shortly!